2007-01-31 09:34:21 · 26 answers · asked by David H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok just a little bit of advice, unless your girls a stripper herself, DONT TELL HER U WENT TO A STRIP CLUB!!!! its a better idea to not go at all, for one thing your disrespectin your girl by lettin another girl rub herself all over u. i know most guys dont consider goin to a strip club cheatin, but it is wat it is, cheatin! just like oral sex is sex ( just an example). and maybe u should talk to your girl about her not bein able to make time for the realtionship because its causin u to CHEAT! and if she really truly loved u she would MAKE TIME to see u. in other words bein in a relationship is like bein a team, both have to do equal amounts of "work" and if thats a problem itll all come tumblin down unless u work it out.
2007-01-31 09:42:52 · answer #1 · answered by sarah_gotdance 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No way... never tell her that. Even if your mad - don't tell her. Your going to make her feel inadequate. That is a recipe for less attention...
How would you feel if she complaints that you don't give her enough time and she tells you she's going to a male strip club? How would you feel if see her with mushroom marks all over her face?
Some people get jealous while other simply move away- if you want to keep her- don't tell her.
2007-01-31 10:01:40 · answer #2 · answered by theman134 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your relationship. I don't know your girlfriend so I really don't know her expectations of you. Personally my fiance quit going to strip clubs as soon as we started going out because it brought down my self esteem to know he was looking at naked bodies that didn't belong to me. I think it's very inconsiderate of you to even think about going to a strip club. Your woman should be enough for you. If not, you shouldn't be together if you're not fully satisfied in the relationship.
2007-01-31 09:40:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you look at other women when you have a girlfriend? Who the **** cares if she "doesnt have time" for you? Make time, and if you truly care for each other you will make it work. Go ahead, go to a strip club and piss her off...real smart. Revenge is not the answer.
2007-01-31 09:38:51 · answer #4 · answered by seashellie89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save the money you would spend at a strip club,and buy you a spelling program.
2007-01-31 09:38:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends. Not to many women like the fact that their boyfriends are going to strip clubs. But some don't care. If she is really laid back, then I don't think she would be too mad. But if she's not, then I don't think so.
2007-01-31 09:39:40 · answer #6 · answered by Britney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You show disrespect to your girlfriend by first, telling or asking her that you want to go to a strip club. Secondly, you insult her by wanting to go in the first place - to see other women strip.
She wants to be first and not only that, she wants to be respected. She doesn't want someone with low morals.
2007-01-31 09:39:09 · answer #7 · answered by Drwho 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO YOU SHOULD OF TOLD HER HOW YOU FELT AND HOW COME YOU ARE FEELING LIKE SHE DOES NOT HAVE ANY TIME FOR YOU ANY MORE. IF THAT DID NOT WORK I THINK THAT IS OKAY FOR YOU TO HAVE SOME FUN AND IF THAT MEANS GOING TO A STRIP CLUB THAN IT'S OKAY
good luck
2007-01-31 09:39:53 · answer #8 · answered by .:aRi:. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Harley loves to set in the parking lot at strip clubs. If you are going to behave there you have no business being there. Fuzzy holes that is a new one for me.......I love it. Rock on!
2016-05-23 23:50:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi David, telling your girlfriend that sounds like a ploy to get her attention and let her know that she is hurting you. Just be straight up with her about what you are willing to give and what you expect in return it is easier than taking the rabbit trails and avoiding the actual issue. good luck! ronniea
2007-01-31 09:45:30 · answer #10 · answered by ronniea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋