I don't check out guys. I havea great boyfriend, and I think its wrong to do it if your going out with someone, but do guys check out girls when your going out with someone? I feel so stupid, but its only fair..
2007-01-31 09:28:24 · 31 answers · asked by Love is Patient, Love is Kind ♥ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know that if i had a gf, i wouldnt be checking out other girls.
I understand where your coming from.
2007-01-31 10:21:16 · answer #1 · answered by Shutout105 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Mmm...well personally I think that it is wrong, thinking someone is attractive is one thing. Looking once, when I'm not there, and me not knowing about it, then I don't care if I see an attractive guy I keep eyes up front and automatically think that my boyfriend is better looking and he loves me, I don't want anyone else so there is no need to "check-out" other guys. If my boyfriend did that around me or even said another girl was attractive I would slap him across the face and then never talk to him again. That's one of those things you keep to yourself.
2007-01-31 09:33:59 · answer #2 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they may check out other girls but it is not because they don't like the person they are with. Even if she is the most beautiful person in the entire world there is still beauty in many others. Pretty much all guys do it weather they admit it or not it is human nature.
Girls don't because most girls are not visually stimulated that is why guys look at mags with pictures in them and girls read romance novels. I know lots of girls who read those steam novels which is the equivalent of a guy looking at a girly mag.
2007-01-31 09:35:44 · answer #3 · answered by thatoneguy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U need to honest with yourself U know you have checked out guys before its only human. It's just that most guys take it over board and break their necks doing it or even checking out chicks when their with their women. He's gonna do it no matter what, the thing is, is make sure he doen't disrespect U & do it in front of you
2007-01-31 09:42:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is absolutly NOT wrong to check out girls if you are in a relationship. i guarantee you that any STRAIGHT guy will check out women during a relationship. i am sorry to say it but it's the truth. on the other hand, it IS wrong to flirt with or ask out girls while in a relationship, but as long as he is just looking, you are ok. then again, you could give him something better to look at so he doesn't have to check out other women.
2007-01-31 09:33:30 · answer #5 · answered by double0agent2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes they do, the excuse is everyone enjoys a little eye candy. So fair is fair. Check out guys
2007-01-31 09:34:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
its fine in my opinion i do it. My girlfriend should know that i will always love her no matter what. Its not the looks, its the personality and relationship. I mean you dont go blind. Are you gonna tell me that the actors on the television, you dont check them out? And in your head you dont check out guys..i mean like look at them and subtly do it. I mean thats ok to me for my girlfriend and me to do but, making a seen about it is definetly not ok. Its good to be loyal but i mean its fine to check others out.
2007-01-31 09:35:11 · answer #7 · answered by cthor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your relationship. I've been with my bf for 3.5 years and both of us aren't really the jealous type. But it all depends on how tactful your mate is. If my bf sees a pretty girl he'll say, "that girl is really pretty." And i'll say,"Wow yeah she is." And vice versa. I think it's another thing for him to gawk at a girl when he's with you because that's somewhat disrespectful. When he's alone, it's only natural for guys to stare. Ultimately, you're the one he's with.
2007-01-31 09:34:40 · answer #8 · answered by peejay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't doubt it. Guys have a different way of thinking. They think "I can look but can't touch." They also think that if they don't have sex with a female but kiss or hug or do other things, that it isn't considered cheating. Not all but most.
2007-01-31 09:35:12 · answer #9 · answered by Britney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just cause you're not single anymore doesin't mean you're dead! Appreciateing an attractive person is absolutely normal and healthy. You just prob. shouldin't make comments or make it obvious to the person you're with cause it would hurt thier feelings and THAT is wrong.
2007-01-31 09:34:54 · answer #10 · answered by Azalea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, not if i have a hot girlfriend. then i am too busy staring down the guy checking her out, to actually check out any girls myself
2007-01-31 09:34:45 · answer #11 · answered by The Brown Bomber 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋