We went out for 5 1/2 monthes and he broke up with me because he though i didn't like him that much and he didn't think it was going anywhere, also he didn't belvie i loved him, which i did. Well its been about 3 1/2 monthes since then and we still talk on the phone at lot and hang out. We flirt all the time and hes admitied it. I still like him. I started going out with this other guy and he got really jelous, he was mad that i had kissed this other guy quicker than i had kissed him. Anytime i go out with someone he gets jelous I think he still might have some fellings for me. Since we broke up we've gotten closer, we tell eachother most everything. When were flirting we go kinda far, another one of my friends shut us inthe bathroom together and he kissed me on the forhead, he always goes really far but stoped before he kisses me. I really want to make it work how can i get him back and i know a lot of you are just going to say get over him but its not that simple.
2007-01-31 09:23:56 · 7 answers · asked by Jessie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds to me that the two of you have a lot to talk about. Flirting to us means that a guy is interested, but to some guys, it's just a natural thing that they do. His jealousy is kind of peculiar, though. If you are as close as you say you are, then sit down with him, tell him how you are feeling, and find out if he feels the same way. If he does, then decide together what the best path is. If he doesn't, then you really do need to let him go, and don't let him get away with doing things that cause confusion about his feelings for you, such as flirting with you. You have a right to move on if he doesn't have feelings for you, and his current behavior isn't allowing you to do that. Good luck!
2007-01-31 09:31:41 · answer #1 · answered by Denise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-07 18:35:47 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and talk with him seriously. It sounds like the two of you still act as though your relationship merely slowed down. He may have broken up with you not because he didn't think you care, but because he was nervous or had doubts. Doubts are normal in any relationship, especially at points when the relationship seems to be moving to another level. Tell him how you feel and the you want to give it another chance. Encourage him to be open in communicating with you about his feelings and be supportive.
2007-01-31 09:29:46 · answer #3 · answered by fly guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think mabe you should think about it.
mabe you like him more than you thought and thats when it happends, the only time you have feelings for him is when he leaves. you don't know how much you like something untill it is acually gone. im not comparing you and him to a dog but, i once had a dog he would always chew on my anckles i'd always fuss at him, then one day he got ranover by a guy in a pickup truck and the guy just laughed.... I wanted to kill him after that.
I cryied for 2 days so my bf bought me a wolf dog and i still wasn't very happy. i still wanted my chiwawa back. back to the point, mabe you should try to go on a date with him.... or somthing.
hope it helped =)
2007-01-31 09:37:13 · answer #4 · answered by Madswag 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I know what you are talking about!! I want my ex back too!!! Okay here's what you do...tell him how you feel. He may already know, but ask him how he feels about you and go from there. He's most likely into you still also. Don't let too much time go by though b/c you may miss an opportunity that you really want. Just be straight with him and tell him how you feel b/c you obviously want to be with him. TELL HIM!!
2007-01-31 09:28:10 · answer #5 · answered by dancer1883 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first thing, dont get over him.
this boy seems to have some feelings for you in that department..
second.. talk to him.. not just the everyday kinda talk. I mean talk to him about your relationship.. where it's going and how you feel. He seems to still really care about you (luckkkyy). Take a chance & even if he doesnt feel that way, it seems like it won't ruin your frienship since you've already broken up and still remained really close.
and good luck!
2007-01-31 09:30:18 · answer #6 · answered by jjeessiiccaa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him he can have you any way he wants you. then hook up with him and let him pop you in the trunk. he will love you forever
2007-01-31 09:31:29 · answer #7 · answered by Tommy Pistol 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋