2007-01-31 09:18:30 · 14 answers · asked by K C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
colors, pants, hats, table. chairs...wood working i general
2007-01-31 09:21:09 · answer #1 · answered by The Brown Bomber 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your greatest success will be getting him to talk. His best topic is himself. Be a good listener.
Mad comics had a feature about teens on a bowling date. She kicked his butt. On the ride home his thoughts were , I'll never take her out again.
Her words to him were, "thanks for letting me win, that was so sweet of you" and gave him a kiss.
He did a 180. There is a lesson in there. Never compete with a guy you've got your eye on.
Just react until you're in. Then is the time to have strong opinions.
This technique will reveal the real guy, maybe you don't want another date.
Good hunting!
2007-01-31 09:31:08 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Movies ... musics ... hobbies ... your insterests ... his interests ... stories of your life ... stories of his life ... sports ...
You know, general small talk ... just make sure you both do the talking, you know what I mean?
If it is first date, do not talk about
1. Sex
2. Money issue
3. Religious, politic, and sensitive issue
4. Your ex-es
5. Your insecurity
Good luck!!!
2007-01-31 09:24:19 · answer #3 · answered by Nicegal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him questions about himself (not too many - try to be balanced). Try to find common ground on things that you are both interested in. I wouldn't talk about religion or politics. Small talk at first, then if you get on - it will all probably come naturally.
2007-01-31 09:23:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-28 06:09:43 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would use a good conversation started like
so hows your day been going so far? or
are you a football fan?
then from there i would roll into related topics and pretty soon your date will be over and you will thank me for the advice
2007-01-31 09:21:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people actually love to talk about themselves, so start there. Ask him what he works at and if he enjoys that, or if he is in school ask him what he likes most about school. Listen to what he has to say and then you also will have a cue as to what to talk about. Lets say he talks about his family then talk to him about his family, if he talks about his favorite sport talk to him about your favorite sport etc and so on
2007-01-31 09:22:25 · answer #7 · answered by wandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of music you like, your hobbies, movies you like, what you do for a living. Do not talk about your ex and save family drama for later
2007-01-31 09:21:14 · answer #8 · answered by Lovely 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk about the weather...talk about each others families and what you plan to do with your life at the moment or any goals..once your there you will get a feel of the vibe between you two! good luck!
2007-01-31 09:21:46 · answer #9 · answered by Suze 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk a little bit about yourself. Ask him questions, nd once something you both have in common comes up, strt discussing it.
2007-01-31 09:21:21 · answer #10 · answered by apple513 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
aha a funny dream u once had :P lol j.k. uhh u can talk about... stuff he likes lol
2007-01-31 09:21:26 · answer #11 · answered by Spring 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋