so i'm finally taking this girl out on a date and to the Sweetheart's dance for school and I was wondering what are some good tips to show that i like her but not be too obvious... I am kind of quiet, she is also, but we have started to talk a lot lately (past 3-4 weeks)and seem to have fun time when we do. she is in the math class that I T.A. for, so I see her often and am beginning to really like her...anyways.
It seems that every girl i have liked in the past will seem interested and we will flirt, possibly go out once or twice and then like 2wks later she doesn't seem to like me anymore. we will still be friends and hangout but I just find it weird and wondering if i'm doing something wrong?
It takes me a while to get warmed up to people or to feel like i'm 'myself' and i think i'm getting to that point with her. so what are some do's/dont's for the date and just in general so that I can possibly go on a 2nd...3rd..etc. date and take things a step further?
2007-01-31 09:18:28 · 7 answers · asked by Devster 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are some basic dos/don'ts.
Don't talk about ex's
Don't make bad jokes
etc.
Then there are some basic do's
Be open
look her straight in the eye ahen you listen to her
etc.
Then there are some special do's/don'ts
Don't talk about marraige or kids till she does
Don't be overbearing or rude to anyone around you
Open the door or pull out her seat once in a while
Compliment her genuinely
Don't just go to dinner and a movie all the time. Find something fun to do.
Be real!
If you can, you might ask one of the girls who didn't hang with you after a few weeks why.
2007-01-31 09:31:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been blessed to know several exceptionally attractive, smart, funny women in my life. Some I've dated, and one I married - but excepting her, almost all of the others had terrible self-esteem issues. Why should this be? One was a runner up to Ms. New Jersey in the Ms. America pagent. Another is an RN (requires a brain and compassion, no?) and drop-dead gorgeous. Neither seems capable of happiness. These are just two recent examples, I have encountered many others. Nothing anyone does or says seems to help, and I despair of finding the magic words to help my friends with this struggle. Anyone have any insights? I'll take anything from vague guesses to professional opinions.
2016-05-23 23:48:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay...don't rush it. Keep up the talking...thats a great start. Then talk about stuff that she is interested in...talk about her dreams...what she wants to do with the rest of her life. Then...after the sweethearts dance, ask her if she would like to go out again...with some friends. She can invite some of hers and you can invite some of yours. Then...see what happens.
2007-01-31 09:26:39 · answer #3 · answered by Lola 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be pushy or come on too strong , an don't change the way you are to her,like become overbearing like you are married, keep it casual and let her move to the next level.Too many guys like to put a choke chain there after it's confirmed that they've got the girl,and they change, just stay yourself and always communicate.
2007-01-31 09:24:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont act too desperate... act confident and talkt o other people dont keep all of your attention on her... playing hard to get always attracks girls and makes them want you more. You can give her "the look" once in a while to let her know that you want her. And....let her come to you.
2007-01-31 09:24:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question is too long, i stopped reading after the first couple words.
2007-01-31 09:21:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
be yourself and hope for the best. =)
2007-01-31 09:22:21 · answer #7 · answered by Romeo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋