Okay...so I dated this guy for like a year...and now we've been broken up since September. He had a girlfriend for a little bit but now they are over too. Since they broke up he's been getting all flirty with me again...walking really close to me in the hallway...trying to hold my hand (which he did when he was with her but she wasn't around) and whistling at me when I walk past him in the hallway.
The thing that he doesn't know is that I was doing really good. I was over him...until now. I have all the old feelings and I don't want them anymore!!! I want him to leave me alone. My friends tell me to tell him to kiss off but I can't. Believe it or not...I cared for this guy ( a lot) the one who lied to me all the time. A while ago I would have given anything to get back with him...but now he's just getting in my way!!
Without being mean about it...how do I tell him that I really don't feel comfortable with him around me anymore. I'm okay with being freinds with him...
2007-01-31 09:05:55 · 6 answers · asked by Lola 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I just don't want to get into another relationship with him.
2007-01-31 09:06:14 · update #1
dont worry about what he thinks. Because he is not concerned with anyones well being except his. He was looking for you when he had a girlfriend which means that he will look for someone else when he is with you. Liars are not worth your time so tell him straightforward that you do not want to be with him. If you keep letting him have control over you he will convince you and then you will get hurt again. I'm telling you this from experience. Be firm so that you wont end up hurt again.
2007-01-31 09:18:12 · answer #1 · answered by Lovely 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
okay girl u gotta get serious and firm about this if u really need to do what u belive is best. if he wont leave u alone then just say it strait to his face to step out, get back, and out of ur way cuz u aint gonna put up with this crap. tell him that u fine with bein freidnz n all, but tell it to him like he should kno it if hes really seriously botherin u. this advice always works and it will build more confidince when u go out wit otha guys n u wanna break them. got it? ill work, trust! ^.^
2007-01-31 09:12:36 · answer #2 · answered by samara_kittykitty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why waste your self on somebody who's clearly only using you?i could tell her to discover another mug to grant her money and run around after her.Please awaken and comprehend which you do no longer need to be taken care of in this way and there are a variety of of nicer women people who could take care of you so a lot greater valuable.
2016-11-23 18:16:34 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can sense the power he has over you,dont let him get away with it. Its your hand woman, dont let him touch it. Better yet grab it and twist it till it hurts him. Just who the hell does he think he is??
2007-01-31 09:11:13 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just say good bye
2007-01-31 09:13:01 · answer #5 · answered by .:aRi:. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget that friend crap and just ignore him
2007-01-31 09:13:52 · answer #6 · answered by ken j 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋