OK, ive got a wife and 2 mistresses . None of them know about the other. Im having a great time and so are they. Because of these relationships, im having great sex 6 times a week.Monday is my day off.. Nobody is getting hurt so is it really the wrong thing to do. I am at the end of every day keeping three people happy.
If your a woman answering, then think about it first... Would you cheat on your husband if it made you happy and no one got hurt....????
2007-01-31 09:04:46 · 38 answers · asked by pop c 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok Sonny
I got married because there was only one woman in my life at that time.But now there are three. In answer to everyone else, there are no std's we are all clean. I love all these women, and they all love me. Is it so wrong for one man to love three women. We all truly love one another, so wheres the harm.
2007-01-31 09:20:00 · update #1
Its just amazing that you are all women thats replied. just one bloke, and he agrees with me..I have been married for 27 years and these affairs have been ongoing for the last 8 years. We all enjoy sex, no one is getting hurt, so once again, where is the harm.. Marriage vowels mean nothing to me. Im not religious, they are just words set up by the church..They mean nothing to my other 2 partners. Niether of them have asked for divorce, so wheres the harm...??
2007-01-31 09:29:35 · update #2
I wish some moe men would answer this question..I understand all you women dissing me, but I do truly love all my women, all three. Sex comes into it of course. each one is different, each satisfies my desires and luckily, i satisfy theirs. Sex is not really the issue, but moreso loving three women at the same time. They might have lovers, I dont know... Im sure they dont...Because being women and being satisfied by one man is enough as reflected in all your answrs...
2007-01-31 09:41:26 · update #3
Charlotte,
Dont pity me babe. Nobody ive read so far including you have honestly answered my question. My wife loves me, my other women love me. And I love all of them. Simply because they know nothing about one another. Ok . one day they may find out about one another, but for today, is it so wrong if they know nothing about one another..
Supposing for just one minute you were "the other woman" but knew nothing about anyone else.. Would you think it was OK to love me like they do.. I know you cant answer this, but think about it...????
2007-01-31 09:55:49 · update #4
No No star baby T..
I didnt say that... I said marriage vowels mean nothing to me cos im not religious, not marriage. When i got married there was just her. Now there are three...
2007-01-31 10:02:06 · update #5
Yes, If i was to find out that my wife was having an affair, then yes i would show all the signs of being gutted. But that would be to cover up my own feelings and affairs.. What came after that i dont know if im totally honest...
Look, most people on this planet stick to one person, I choose otherwise and make three people happy. Is that really so wrong..
2007-01-31 10:10:59 · update #6
Eventually somebody WILL get hurt.
2007-01-31 09:08:26 · answer #1 · answered by BiancaVee 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi, you must not love your wife very much if you are doing this to her, having one mistress as you put it would be bad enough but two that is going way too far, do you have any children if so have you thought of what this would do to them when it comes out and beleive me it will come out some time, you say you are keeping 3 people happy, for one how can you afford to keep 3 people, it can't be off working hard or you wouldnt have time for 3 people, and where does your wife think you are when you are off seeing these other women, how do you have time, i can't believe you think this is ok at the end of the day you will get caught out and not only will everyone end up hurt but you will end up alone and then see how clever you think this is.
2007-01-31 09:23:16 · answer #2 · answered by whitleylass 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just think of how you would feel if the situation was reversed....Your wife satisfying 3 men and you didnt have a clue.
If you wanted to play the field why on earth did you get married in the first place - especially if you say marriage means nothing to you?
2007-01-31 09:56:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i would not, i think you are being really selfish and playing around with peoples trust in you,Just imagine if the shoe was on the other foot?, i can tell you how you would feel, disrespected and betrayed among many others to say the least, get a grip, it is easy to be a husband but more deserved to be a MAN ( about things )
2007-01-31 09:18:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im a guy so I can't really answer for my wife but well ,im not one to judge but forsee a bit of problems in the future for you with all three..I think I saw this in a movie one time where all of them found out and got to know each other.It wasnt a pretty site when they got through with him.As for the other question I think in the right situtation that anyone would cheat.I would like to say no but we are human..But they desire can be overcome I suppose..Good luck to you and hope things will be ok.I wouldn't want to be you if they all found out lol take care.
2007-01-31 09:14:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-01 23:56:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
before u skim past this reply because i am a woman and u r expecting me to diss u.......... i am not. i know that u can love more than one person... i have in the past although i havent been brave enough to go with the feelings and be with them both at once.
if things can carry on the way they r for u all then i am happy for u. at some point one of the other ladies might want more from u and throw a spanner in the works so please just be careful as two other ladies r gonna get very hurt. especially ur wife.
as religion and marriage vows go it is very wrong....... as love goes it will feel very right.
go with ur gut feeling. treat them all well and hopefully life will carry on in ur perfect world in a perfect way for u.
all the best in 2007. x
2007-01-31 23:53:53 · answer #7 · answered by Cubangirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just out of interest, is one of your mistresses called hannah?
i'm a guy and i don't agree with being with more than one woman.
you should just give all your love to the one person.
you obviously have issues in your relationship or you wouldn't have started with one affair, nevermind two.
they are only having a good time because they don't really know what you're like. they don't know about the other women! they would be hurt if they did. sex isn't everything. there is no justification for what you are doing.
deal with your marriage and sort your head out!
2007-01-31 10:29:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it wrong yes it is.
Who will be the lonely one if he's ever found out... The simple answer is you.
As if you are making 3 people so happy you would have told your wife and mistresses about the other people you are having sex with.
Or maybe your wife does know and has decided to keep quiet because she is also seeing someone else.
2007-01-31 10:17:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! I think that you are a disgusting, narrow-minded creep of a man! Its men like you that make women lose their self confidence and doubt their own beauty because you have to stray to satisfy yourself. You make me sick!
How long do you think that you can keep this up? You will get caught out eventually and you'll end up breaking three hearts! How can you be so ******* selfish? Well I hope you do get caught out. I hope the women cut your balls off, and get boyfriends who truly respect them for the fab women they are!
2007-01-31 09:19:21 · answer #10 · answered by MrsMatsuyama 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel sorry for your wife--she trusts you and you are going behind her back and hurting her, whether she knows at this point or not. Why not give her the respect she deserves and get a divorce? Then you can do whatever you want. Why lie to her? Why risk transmitting diseases to her? The truth eventually comes out. I think you are only thinking of yourself and your needs.
2007-01-31 09:12:03 · answer #11 · answered by ♥Sodas♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋