We went out for 5 1/2 monthes and he broke up with me because he though i didn't like him that much and he didn't think it was going anywhere, also he didn't belvie i loved him, which i did. Well its been about 3 1/2 monthes since then and we still talk on the phone at lot and hang out. We flirt all the time and hes admitied it. I still like him. I started going out with this other guy and he got really jelous, he was mad that i had kissed this other guy quicker than i had kissed him. Anytime i go out with someone he gets jelous I think he still might have some fellings for me. Since we broke up we've gotten closer, we tell eachother most everything. He has asked me to have sex with him, but I said we weren't dating so no, we never had sex before. When were flirting we go kinda far, another one of my friends shut us inthe bathroom together and he kissed me on the forhead, he always goes really far but stoped before he kisses me. I really want to make it work how can i get him back
2007-01-31 09:01:52 · 4 answers · asked by Jessie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There was even one time in the car where we were playing are you nervous yet and he acctualy started to put his hand down my pants. All my friend say we flirt. I know a lot of you will probably tell me to just get over him, but its not the simple
2007-01-31 09:03:50 · update #1
It sounds as if in his own way he was pressuring you into having sex with him and broke up with you out of frustration.Him telling you that he broke it off because he felt you didn't like him is an indication of him trying to manipulate you to show him by having sex with him . He can't just come out and say all of this without coming off as sounding like the jerk he is,so he was being evasive. He felt the pressure of you losing him would be a hint for you to give in to his sexual desires. But I kind of get the feeling you will not accept all that I have told you. Hopefully you will not find out the hard way and end up getting hurt. Good luck to you!
2007-01-31 09:17:26 · answer #1 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not going to tell you to get over him, I'm going to tell you that sex is all he wants from you. The fact that he would ask you a question like that is telling me that he doesn't have feelings for you that he is only using you. You are worth way more than that anyway so why are you even wasting your time? If you have feelings for him then do what you want, because obvious you don't know you're own worth. If you haven't slept with him yet then don't. You made a good choice, but someone that forward is only going to ever want one thing from you. Move on you're wasting your time. Why would you want him back when all he wants is your body? Good luck honey!
2007-01-31 09:11:46 · answer #2 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I have been in this situation before...You need to put your foot down and let him know that you are in Love with him and you want him back...If you says no then he was only out for one thing (possibly)...Anyway..It worked for me and we have been together for 6 years and we are getting married in July 07..So It can possibly work for you and also depending on your age...So good luck with the out come...
2007-01-31 09:11:04 · answer #3 · answered by b_andee2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how u feel and see where it goes and also ask him do u still love me ...
2007-01-31 09:07:14 · answer #4 · answered by Kandy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋