me and my ex split up 4 weeks ago , i miss him love him but i dont fink he will grow up he seems to wont to be with me do everything togther for a year then wont to have a big phase of partyin, i get upset as i get chucked back i tel him this and he say im silly he wana see he m8s more and fil dif i said i do but wont to rebuld the spark and respcetd back , he said i dont fink u will change about me gon out drinking i explain it was only coz he use to get angrery or acuse me of stuf , he controls he drink a bit more doesnt acuse me of stuf but wil say yer i got drunk and dont remebr the nite makes me worry and he spend like 80pound every week on clubin wen he could save to marry me like he said. wel i fink i miss him mroe coz he has never said he feels dif we both have change for the worse togther but i love him wont to make it work and rebulid r relationship but keep m8s there this time not jus us to coped up togther it seems he breks 2 party then he miss me wont me bk this 4th time
2007-01-31 08:58:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Food & Drink ➔ Beer, Wine & Spirits
get some more beer, wine and spirits, then you wont be worried about it any more
2007-01-31 09:03:17 · answer #1 · answered by G*I*M*P 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Understand you feel hurt but move on.
Why do you love him, do you think that's the best you can get?
The way you write here makes me think you are very young.
Why want to marry a guy that treats you so badly?
Go on with your life and sometime in the future you will meet a man who will treat you like a queen.
I am 50 (old to you) and only just beginning to know myself, like who i am.
Met a wonderful man and i am happy.
You don't have to eat **** or put up with the way he treats you.
Stand up, get a backbone and enjoy life for you.
2007-01-31 23:10:15 · answer #2 · answered by Ilkie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't take offense to this. But I'm stuck at work and I dont know how I ended reading this but....dude. In reality no one in this world (especially online) gives a crap about what you've gone through. Its the sad truth. Don't waste time posting **** like this. Move on with life. Live it to the fullest. That's all you can do. **** happens for a reason. Funny thing is that this isn't a hobby of mine (answering to blogs n ****). Just enjoy life. Because in reality....when life ends theres no guarantee of anything. All you leave behind is what you accomplished on this planet. Live long and prosper.
PS....I hope that your not American and if you are....I hope you're 5 years old dude. Because I couldnt even understand about 75 % of your blog.
2007-01-31 17:20:16 · answer #3 · answered by Antonio A 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You need relationship counselling.
Contact your local phone counselling service. It only costs a phone call. They can help guide you on how you can talk to each otehr without getting upset and accusing each other, and how to tell each other what you want without yelling at each other or coming across as unfair.
Here's a relationship website in Australia for some ideas:
http://www.relationships.com.au/
2007-01-31 17:07:19 · answer #4 · answered by Puss in Boots 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men don't grow up until after the age of 50
2007-02-02 01:46:31 · answer #5 · answered by SIDECAR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been there. done that. Move on. Its best for you in the long run. it will hurt for a while until you get over him but he doesnt sound like he is any good for you.
2007-01-31 17:08:47 · answer #6 · answered by kelly g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you really want him back? look for someone else he seems a creep and a control freek
2007-02-03 05:30:22 · answer #7 · answered by MAD FEMALE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of the ****
2007-02-01 07:11:54 · answer #8 · answered by Kel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋