Here this looney tunes notion that if you like seeing ladies with no clothes or or fancy anyone you see them as a piece of meat...
only I or anyone I know has never thought of a girl as sausages, hanburger or steak and chips, with bbq sauce.
Not even meatloaf or a sunday roast
Only pyscho canniballs think that.
And why do girls think guys aint interested in getting to know somone they fancy or see naked?
2007-01-31 08:54:05 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ie fed up with people saying guys who find girls attractive are turning them into sex objects or pieces of meat.
Say like girls advertising cars in bikinins
2007-01-31 09:05:16 · update #1
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Hey girls hurt guys too...
Explain then how come when I guy is all friendly, getting to know the girl, understanding etc...
she treats him like her gay brother and dumps him as a friend the second he shows he has feelings for her , going with the jerk instead?
If a girl notices a guy fancies her then why not talk to the guy if he aint nasty...
You will find most want to get to know and stare as they like you but cant think what to say.
2007-01-31 09:22:31 · update #2
And your typical (ex 18,21, bucks night) guy in a lapdance club is likely to just be lonly and not good at chatting to girls... Most likly wanting to really get with a girls he likes but can't manage it... likewise guys with hookers.
They would like to get to know certain girls... only the girls wont let them...
PLUS IF YOUR DAD NEVER SAW YOUR MUM AS SEXAUL, NICE **** ETC ETC
THEY WOULD NOT HAVE FALLING IN LOVE.
JUST BEEN BUDDIES.
NOT HAD SEX
YOU WOULD NOT BE HERE.
aND EVENYONE WOULD BE LONLY AND HURTING AS
NOBODY WOULD KISS,
NOBODY WOULD HUG
NO AFFECTION
NO GUY WOULD ACKNOWELDGE GIRLS NEW HAIRCUTS
GIRLS YOU REALLY WANT THAT?
2007-01-31 09:25:39 · update #3
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KIKU and others who don't get the point.
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Women are people too.
if you judge women as sex objects then they will know!
So start thinking of them as people and you may begin to get some where!
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Ok taking this literally...
What you are saying is
THERE ARE NEVER TO BE ANY MARRIAGES EVER AGAIN.
NO FAMLE EVER WANTS A GUY TO FANCY HER, EVER KISS HER, NEVER HUG HERE.
NEVER ACKNOWLEDGE HEIR NOEW HAIR.
NEVER SHOW HER ANY INTEREST OR EMOTIONS, OR LOVE EVER!!!!!!!!!!!
aND ONLY TREAT HER AS A GUY AS THEOUGH THERE WAS ONLY ONE SEX AND YOU WANT A LIFE OF TOTAL ABSTEINANCE
NEVER HAVE A BOYFRIEND? AT ALL.
As thats what not judging people in any way sex object wise and only looking at their personality actually means... If you mean something else say so only in litteral terms please everyone else.
2007-01-31 13:14:05 · update #4
U r an idiot with serious issues.
2007-02-08 00:04:27 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Initial attraction is visual. It is only natural that once you see a person of the opposite sex you either have a reaction, or you don't. If you do, it is usually some kind of sexual stimulation. This is only human nature.
I don't think it has anything to do with whether or not you look at pictures of naked people (as long as you don't make it a habit).
The "looking at people like pieces of meat" thing is over-done. Yes, there are people who are over-sexed. If it is all you think of, you may be one of them. If you see the opposite sex as ONLY a means of "getting your rocks off" then you probably have a problem.
If, on the other hand, you view sex as a fringe benefit of something deeper. I don't see a problem.
2007-02-08 05:10:54 · answer #2 · answered by Renee D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I get your train of thought...
men are far more stimulated on a purely visual basis than women-in as much as women tend to be more emotional in their choices and the visual thing is less important(but not totally irrelevant,obviously).
for example, if you ask a guy which he'd rather have, a sexy lady or a funny lady he'll usually say 'what? the sexy one got no sense of humour?' (or similar-you get the idea).
That is at least until he finds that perfect someone for him who's got both-ie the initial wow factor and the personality to keep him interested after the initial wow has waned. And that's not to say there's no wow afterwards...well you know what I mean.
And if you don't......well.
2007-02-01 03:48:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You know what they mean! But girls get hurt emotionally pretty often with guys starting from a young age because the majority of BOYS do just want to get thier dick wet. It's primal instinct. So they hold this with them into adulthood. And lets be honest, ask any adult female and they will tell you that they have been lied to or decieved at one point in thier lives by a man who just wanted to get down thier pants. This has of course happened to me several times, and as a result I had alot of trust issues when I started seeing a man who did like me for me.
2007-01-31 09:06:28 · answer #4 · answered by Azalea 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Of course they are objects of desire - otherwise you wouldn't desire them - and no matter how much they moan about it, you can guarantee that if you said you don't find them sexually desireable they'd have a right strop on about that!
There's just this old fashioned notion that girls should be virginal and demure about sexual relationships, but give me a plain talking slutbag any day of the week.
"Do you fancy a bit?"
"Not 'alf - get your todger out."
It would be a lot easier wouldn't it?
2007-01-31 20:33:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girls like Guys who like seeing women naked.. Whats the alternative? You want your fella to like watching naked men playing Rugby. Nooo... Give me a good old hot blooded male anyday...
Just read your additions ----You kind of hate girls at the mo don't you.. It will pass.. Maybe!! . Friday night is looming.
Good luck.
Bye the way if you do go out to party. don't take all this angst out with you , its abit of a turn off.
Have fun!!
2007-01-31 09:03:37 · answer #6 · answered by nitenurse 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's obvious!!!...actions speak louder than words...you might say you are more interested in the actual pulp of an apple instead of just the peel...yet whenever you see an apple you pay more attention to the peel than the inside...
..ok so maybe the apple thing is not the best example but you get the idea...you might genuinely be interested in knowing the girl as well....but if your actions say that you just wanna use her as a piece of meat...then what will the girl percieve??...girls aren't mind readers...:-P
2007-01-31 09:10:30 · answer #7 · answered by Fatal intoxication 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
okay so i can definitely see you like to get the last word!!!! I have said the whole meat thing to my husband and my thing is if my husband is lusting after another woman (ie playboy porn strip clubs etc) then I feel like I'm not attractive enough for him (and by the way i used to be a model) I have come to realize after 10 years of marriage men are gonna look it doesn't matter if your a supermodel!!!!! correct me if I'm wrong please!!!
2007-02-08 08:09:40 · answer #8 · answered by dirt77 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I hate it when people answer a question just to say 'I don't know', but...
I don't know. I'm a girl and I don't think that. I guess it's the influence of the popularised, male-bashing feminism they get fed by the magazines they read.
2007-01-31 09:01:42 · answer #9 · answered by PlumsOfDoom 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Women are people too.
if you judge women as sex objects then they will know!
So start thinking of them as people and you may begin to get some where!
2007-01-31 11:31:01 · answer #10 · answered by kiku 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sorry to butt in, yet I desire skinny chicks. properly, oh my gosh, don't get the incorrect concept. i'm merely saying i think of thinner is a little greater appealing. Curvy is suitable, too. adult adult males like curvy, too. they say it, "supplies them a dash something to artwork with."
2016-10-16 09:17:28 · answer #11 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋