Left and right, 14 and 15 year olds asking 'What do I do? I'm in love and I don't want to lose him/her" 17 year olds ready to get married and have children of their own.
I know for the most part its not everyone of them that think this way, but I wonder what's the hurry?? Did these young people forget to enjoy themselves while young and leave Love some time to grow and develop?
My goodness.. its a shame to see the uneasyness of these kids now a days. They want to act as adults yet refuse to behave as such..
Just want to know some of your opinions :) *hugz*
(Sorry if i'm ranting, not my intention)
2007-01-31 08:51:02 · 10 answers · asked by ☆Karma☆ 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because these damn kids want it all now they just dont stop sports cars tickets bf's gf's sometimes both. so by the time they have the house the cars the kids and thier all of the age of 19. whats next are they ready to be grand parents by now christ. cant we just say when these kids find others they wanna be with you just wanna nail em thats all just be honest you dont love them you lust for them. maybe we need more pot in our school systems. yeah im gonna look into this epademic a lil more and by the time im ready to be president ill have the answers.
2007-01-31 12:57:33 · answer #1 · answered by Jeff B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 30 now. I was one of those kids back then and ended up pregnant at age 19. Luckily, that was a wake up call for me and I didn't have any more kids after that (well I'm pregnant right now but I'm married now). I think it's because these young kids want love and affection but don't have the skills and experience to go about getting it the right way. It's a shame and it's scary because most young parents are not ready to be parents at all.
They need a lot of parental guidance at this age and most of the time, this age is when parents stop giving so much guidance.
2007-01-31 09:00:34 · answer #2 · answered by Rairia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is just walk away and dont look back. If you really love this guy and want to be with him, tell him, but also tell him you cant just be his mistress. As long as he still has something with the wife, thats all you'll ever be. He may not still love his wife, but he's not ready to let go yet. And thats what you have to wait for. Tell him how you feel, then walk away and dont look back. It will hurt like hell, but its really the only thing you can do if you ever want a chance to have this guy all to yourself. If you back out of the situation, he will have to decide what it is he really wants. Either he will make sure things get finished with the wife and then he can concentrate on you, or he will get things right and stay with his wife. Thats a scary chance to take, but you really have no choice, unless youre happy being the other woman...... I wasnt happy being the other woman, and I just had to walk away. It took a little over a year for my now-husband to get his divorce, and I also stayed away long enough for him to have some time to himself to go out with other women, or whatever he wanted to do---- he stayed home alone, he didnt date at all. But 3 yrs after I walked away, I called him. We talked for about a month on the phone, and then when I finally saw him again, it was amazing. We were both still in love with each other, and because of the time we'd spent apart, we both knew it was real, and not some infatuation. We got married last summer, and its been totally amazing. I missed him terribly when I walked away, but taking that time makes us appreciate the love we have together. If its meant to be, there will be a way that you will reconnect.
2016-05-23 23:42:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't get it myself. I'm 22, and I didn't really get into a relationship until 18. I'm still in a relationship, but feel like I haven't had the opportunity to be single. I really wish young people would enjoy their lives, and not rush love. It's like having a boyfriend/relationship is some type of fad. Most of the questions on here are from people younger than me. It's like they have more love problems than the ones who actually are old enough to really know and enjoy what relationships and love is all about. Enjoy your youth!
2007-01-31 08:58:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good question actually - but I can't figure out the answer. I was not in a hurry at their age and I'm still not even though I'm more than twice their age (been there, done that, not in a hurry to rush in!!!). I guess they just need to learn by making mistakes - it's just sad they are going to make some mistakes that have high consequences since they don't understand at their age.
2007-01-31 08:56:20 · answer #5 · answered by lunasage 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
May be there is a big difference to see them by the eyes of adult... I guess all the teenagers want to act as adult and they are looking in happiness in adult things also (Not only sex or marriage) I guess to act as an adult it is a way to learn how to act in the adult life... all of us did it and felt it, and if parents, adult friends or even we - the adults- on Yahoo Answers can answer and help them with understanding and responsibility than they have good chance to learn in their young age how to act as intelligent adult later in the relationship, sex or any other part of their life...
2007-01-31 09:17:46 · answer #6 · answered by vandom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess people are afraid to be left behind. One person finds their companion, and all their friends are afraid to be left without one. We start questioning ourselves "What if I never find someone?" and look for people we're not even sure we love. Some people just don't know when they're in love. 14 and 15 year olds all dream of getting married and being in love, so they try to incorporate it into their lives. We all wish for someone special.
2007-01-31 08:58:58 · answer #7 · answered by imaforestspirit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i totally agree with you on this one. i see all these kids talking about how they have met the love of their life and they want to get married blah blah..its like ok hello get realy with yourself your 17 years old you havent even had time to see the world whatso ever! and your mind is not even developed to handle such things. they want adult commitments but when it comes to acting like it they get mad for the stupidest things and they wont take responsibility for their actions...like getting knocked up and not knowing what to do....when they asked for it..
but very good question! those kids need to see things for what they really are....
2007-01-31 09:01:08 · answer #8 · answered by Suze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right, its an omen the world is coming to an end and everyone is in a rush.
2007-01-31 09:03:29 · answer #9 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree i am 26 and i want those things now i sure as heck didnt back then
2007-01-31 08:55:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋