I have bulimia, actually I've had it for 5 years. I've tried fighting it, but somehow it keeps relapsing. How do I tell my boyfriend and my parents that I relapsed again? They have suspected that I have because I have lost 20 lbs in less than a month. My parents have said that if I start again, they will prevent me from seeing my boyfriend. I love him, and he loves me. He knew that I was probably gonna get sick again and he said he'd help. How do I tell him that I'm sick? I don't wanna lose him.
2007-01-31 08:48:22 · 10 answers · asked by sugar & spice 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your profile says it all DRAMA QUEEN-no sympathy here
2007-01-31 08:55:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
You need to just be honest--if he loves you then he isn't going anywhere--get the help you need now!!! If your not around then how can you love your b/f--your family is wanting the best for you and if he is the problem then you will be better off w/out him
2007-01-31 16:55:27 · answer #2 · answered by I'm laughing WITH you 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how hard it is to fight this and that you need him to help you be strong. Tell him about your fear of losing him and he'll hold on tighter. Bulimia is serious and you should seek help, not fear it.
2007-01-31 17:00:08 · answer #3 · answered by JoAnn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make them sign a cotract B4
2007-01-31 16:54:51 · answer #4 · answered by Da Cool Dude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to let them know before you become really sick.
2007-01-31 17:29:43 · answer #5 · answered by red1967 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just have to tell him you have a problem if he loves you he will help you . i myself am battling alcoholism and i have no one to help me except AA having problems like these is tough
2007-01-31 16:58:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell so they can help u berfore they found out & take it the wrong way
2007-01-31 16:54:10 · answer #7 · answered by BaNdGeEk_410 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL THEM ASAP. YOU NEED HELP AND SUPPORT FROM YOUR LOVE ONES RIGHT NOW. TELL THEM AS SOON AS U CAN HONIE. GOOD LUCK WITH THAT
2007-01-31 16:54:05 · answer #8 · answered by MS. SWEET T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is the best policy. Please get help for your problem, there are people who care. Best of luck!
2007-01-31 16:53:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just the way you telling us.......yes its harder but if you love him he needs to know. please dont hold it from him...........He didnt do anything to deserve it. But i would really like to know hoe it started and everything please im really interested in that kind of thing please.
2007-01-31 17:01:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋