I've been lovin a gurl for 2 years silently! Shes related 2 me and I felt It gonna be wrong if I confess to her about my feelings and the relation is kind a weird between our families... So she has no Idea what I feel about her and I'm sure She'll be surprised alot If I tell her and things gonna be weird between us, so... I'll appreciate ur opinions about this.
2007-01-31 08:38:24 · 17 answers · asked by NK 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wait a minute what do you mean related? How can someone strangely be related to you? If it's blood don't tell her that's disgusting and it's going to make her feel uncomfortable.....if she thinks of you as blood and family then don't tell her because it's going to make her feel uncomfortable. Sometimes some things are better left unsaid. You don't love her, because love is always reciprocated. Love is never forbidden. Tell her that you like her and that you've felt that way for a long time, yes you do run the risk of losing her friendship, but keeping it inside is what is preventing you from moving on. Tell her, if she doesn't feel the same move on, if she's blood related I am going to feel so bad for telling you this advice. She's not blood related is she? Because that's just sick.
2007-01-31 08:45:34 · answer #1 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How is she related to you? If it's by blood, then just keep this secret to yourself. If not, then go ahead and tell her. She'll either share the feelings or think you're a weirdo. But you will feel better by getting it off your chest.
2007-01-31 08:43:03 · answer #2 · answered by Candi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait, how are you related to her, first of all?!
Second, nothing ever is gonna happen if you just don't show your
side and play smoothly saying how you feel, well maybe tricking her into telling you about her feelings for someone like you!
But if that's a cousin, dude drop it!
luck to you!
2007-01-31 08:43:35 · answer #3 · answered by Zoe05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the relation. I had a friend that dated a second cousin. Everyone accepted it just fine. Nothing ever came from it they were just teenagers. If you love her tell her!
2007-01-31 08:46:51 · answer #4 · answered by aahhdahh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT make any confessions, put it out of your mind and heart. Find a woman you can love that is not related to you.
2007-01-31 08:50:24 · answer #5 · answered by Cyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is related to you, don't do it. You need to overcome the feelings that you have for her. Incest is bad!!! Get some therapy if you can't deal with it by yourself.
2007-01-31 08:42:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ewww no hows she related to u? people will be calling u names and things and your family wont like it just keep it to yourself
2007-01-31 08:44:29 · answer #7 · answered by mich3ll307 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if shes your cousin, dont ask her out. If shes your sister definantly dont ask her out. If shes your step sister, its okay if you ask her out. If shes your god sister or step cousin or something like that where you arnt blood related, totally go for her
2007-01-31 08:43:03 · answer #8 · answered by Jessie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she's related to you then no good can come from it. she'll feel very uncomfortable. it'll ruin your relationship that you already have.
2007-01-31 08:44:55 · answer #9 · answered by dcarcia@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, ask her out for coffee and take it fro there. I don't think you should do big steps...maybe many small steps and see what happens
2007-01-31 08:42:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋