i think my ex gf wants me back, but im not entirely sure. we havent been broken up long, like a week and a half. i still like her and have some feelings left for her. she even told me a dream she had about us after she dumped me. when she told me it, i was thinking that she might want to get back with me. she even said she was begging for me to go back out with her in her dream. is that a good sign saying that i might have another chance with her? we were talkin a lot last night, but i still dont know if she wants me or not.
2007-01-31 08:34:37 · 17 answers · asked by ownby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Did she say that she had a feeling of wanting you back in her dream? The way it sounds, the only way you will know is by asking her. Good luck.
2007-01-31 08:40:28 · answer #1 · answered by tromboneguy_12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you be a man and ask her does she want to go back out with you? Make sure if that's what you really want too or else you'll be leading her on. Why did you two break up anyway? Whatever the reason was, it still stands and getting back together could be the worst thing for the both of you, then again it could be the best. What changes in a week and a half? Make the right decision, good luck babe!
2007-01-31 08:42:03 · answer #2 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This isn't really an answer to your overall question, but I've taken some dream interpretation classes and I just thought you should know, her dream indicates she is desperate to regain something she used to have but is no longer in her possession. Not you though. It's likely a way of being that she used to have with her, that she is not able to get back. I think you have an idea what this desperation is about ... and I think you should encourage her in this area. Help her find peace. If you can do this ... then you probably also have a pretty good chance of getting her back! (not ony that ... but you getting her back would then be a GOOD thing for her too.)
Seek the relational direction that will be best for her. That's pretty much my only thought that directly answers your question.
2007-01-31 08:43:34 · answer #3 · answered by Arabelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd say don't be afraid to ask or tell her how you feel... I mean, the worst thing that can happen is for her to say "i really don't feel that way anymore..." But I wouldn't come on too strong. After all, her dream could have just been a conversation starter to make things less awkward and more friendly... And maybe she appreciates who you are and wants to be friends. Still, I'd tell her that you still want her just in case... Telling your ex-boyfriend that you dreamed you wanted to be back does scream "perogative" :)
2007-01-31 08:40:14 · answer #4 · answered by rylee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds as if she is giving signals to you that she wants you back. Being a girl it is hard for her to let you know this for fear of coming off as if she is chasing you. Why don't you just ask her? Say to her "Since our breakup I have missed you and wondered if you felt the same way"...bet her answer is yes. Then you two can take the conversation from there towards getting back together. Best of luck to you both!
2007-01-31 08:41:21 · answer #5 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is that she does miss you, but wants you to pursue her. So if you like this girl, send her flowers with a card that saids she'll always be the girl of your dreams. Good Luck
2007-01-31 08:40:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her how you feel and ask her if she wants to get back together. If not, then you need to go ahead and move on, because I have seen many many women do my brothers this way & they keep calling and everything because they didn't want my brothers anymore, but they didn't wnt anyone else to have them either.
2007-01-31 08:42:56 · answer #7 · answered by Pretty Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget the dream man,were u in the dream?? i bet she didnt even have a dream the bottomline is she wants u back and she will say anything to get to it
2007-01-31 08:38:56 · answer #8 · answered by combs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never, under any circumstances, spend time with someone that has already rejected you. Find someone that gives you no doubts about her feelings for you.
2007-01-31 08:43:52 · answer #9 · answered by Mary M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the nerve of her....she dumps you and then she's wanting you to beg her into going back!!! nonsense ,,i wouldn't ..she's the one that has to beg you....think about it ...don't make another mistake...think it out;;;;
2007-01-31 08:42:27 · answer #10 · answered by guess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋