i have a friend who thinks everyone is jealous of her. in reality it seems she is jealous of everyone else. she has no good will toward anyone. she doesnt realize people can see her poison. people generally know when someone is a snake. and they can see she is nasty. cause all she does is gossip and spread bad rumors. in fact, i dont like her. if you think people are jealous of you, maybe its because you STINK. any ideas?
2007-01-31 08:27:29 · 11 answers · asked by wcarolinew 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
i have to be because she is in the same circle.
2007-01-31 08:36:11 · update #1
no its not a male thing. she thinks people are jealous because she grew up in a place she grew up-- that btw i never even heard of and most people havent. her home is small and on the main road! not a mansion by any means!
and because her family is in an upper middle class bracket and isnt "blue collar manual labor". and that she is "priviledged"-- i dont think that she is. she is just middle class. she is always tooting her little farty horn. i just dont know why she thinks everyone wants what she has. there are much better people to be jealous of. she is always also putting other people down. i just cant bear to listen to her, particularly when she tells me that people are jealous of her. i just want to say, they are not. they are just tired of her acting like she is the queen of everything. plus she is a gossip and whenevr anyone has anything she acts like they shouldnt have it. like someone had the good fortune to get a new car and she thinks they dont deserve it and she does.
2007-01-31 08:42:19 · update #2
stephanie i dont wish to be a follower or leader of people. i like to have equality. also, i dont talk about her. this is anonymous. i just want to understand her because i would like to try to be her friend. but she is an unbearable snob.
2007-01-31 08:58:03 · update #3
ask yourself... what does this 'friend' have that you want? popularity, nice gifts. its definitely not friendship or any of its values. So why do you HAVE to hang around her, circle or not?
If you're fed up with her then leave her alone. and you're just egging her accusations of jealousy on if youre not stopping them.
For the answer to your real question, her parents probably told her that everyone is jealous of her because shes basically rich, and she has no other excuse.
If you really want some advice, you don't need her, for what? so you can listen to her complaints all day, you don't need that burden. You need REAL FRIENDSHIP, something that is hard to find these days because of popularity, money, power, and people like your 'friend'
Hope I helped!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-31 09:02:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
randy these are 2 women we are talking about here :S
haha
now just to answer the question, yes many ppl can sense a person's personality in an instant. i insistantly know if i should trust a person or not and im usually right.
Apparently ur 'friend' has a very big ego and she probbaly thinks a little bit too highly of herself than she should.
And stop hanging around with her and calling her ur friend, ppl will start to think u are no better than her, and really u can only loose from that relationship if she is really full of poison.
Watch out u were just bad mounting her!!
2007-01-31 08:35:29 · answer #2 · answered by Lara^mt 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I know some people like that myself. It's a big red alert flag to the person having self-confidence and self-acceptance problems. They reverse it outward to everyone else having a problem with jealousy. The truth is they are extremely jealous of everyone because of their own low self-esteem and feelings of being inadequate or not measuring up to others. It's sad when you see people acting out like that. Any outward hatred or spite towards others, usually indicates that the person has a lot of self-hate issues. She's not comfortable in her own skin or not happy with what she was born with! Truly sad!
2007-01-31 08:40:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just because you are part of the the same 'circle' doesn't mean you have to be her friend.
Honestly it kind of sounds like you are a follower as opposed to a leader. Your friend is more than likely the leader and you don't like it.
What you're doing by talking about her behind her back is just as bad as what she does. Are you not going to same thing? Re-evalute the situation.
2007-01-31 08:50:36 · answer #4 · answered by Steph 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It could be a couple of things. She may feel bad about herself and just says that so people won't know it. Or, she may be looking for excuses why people don't like her. If she doesn't admit the problem is her, she saves her pride by not having to admit she's wrong, and she doesn't have to work on correcting her bahavior. It shifts blame.
2007-01-31 08:59:31 · answer #5 · answered by Lady in Red 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its probably cause she needs to know that she is special. By her acting like everyone is jealous of her, she now holds traits people want and she becomes an "idol". She could also just be a prick
2007-01-31 08:37:43 · answer #6 · answered by Cody duh Band Geek 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I honestly do not know anyone who is jealous of black people.
2016-03-28 22:43:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she being pursued by many men whn others arent??
2007-01-31 08:37:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because they are self centered b*tches! & i know someone like that! Back stabbin whores!
2007-01-31 08:38:04 · answer #9 · answered by ♥**Me**♥ 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
just curios
why is this person your 'friend', if you hate them so much?
2007-01-31 08:33:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋