There is this guy at school, He plays 1st team cricket with my brother and he told my bother he has the hots for me. He is damn fine and being with him is not a bad thing at all. he is charming sweet, and knows how to please me....................Problem he is a playa playa!!!!!!!!!! Is it possible to change him or for him to like me enough as to not cheat.??????
2007-01-31 08:17:41 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Since you already know this about him, you need to be aware and keep that thought always in the front of your mind. Meaning, don't get serious, have fun!!!!!It might be pretty hard, but it's the only way you'll make it out without getting hurt. Let him come to you, don't chase him! Who knows, by not falling all over yourself for him, he might end up really liking you!!!! Hey-if he cheats-he's gone, you don't want anyones sloppy seconds!!!!
2007-01-31 08:26:47 · answer #1 · answered by sue d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a playa - always a playa... He's bad news. He'll treat you like a queen when you're around, but once you turn your back he'll do the same to all the other chicks he's with.
2007-01-31 16:22:17 · answer #2 · answered by K9Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard to take the 'play' out of a playa. If not impossible.
Mark
2007-01-31 16:22:30 · answer #3 · answered by Mark C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no sorry honey, but i don't see it happening in the near future. by trying to change him you may put even more pressure on him and it may make him uncomfortable. he probably just told ur brother that cuz he wants to get to you so he can do to you just what hes done to a whole lot of other girls. just stay strong and soon u'll find a real man without that sort of reputation, that won't have to go through ur brother but can tell u and make u feel special.
2007-01-31 16:22:28 · answer #4 · answered by ŤÏҒҒǻńỷ™ ♀ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it from a guy
if u in highschool u lucky if u can just find a guy who treats u good
your not likely to find love and commitment in highschool
enjoy your wit him. take it ne day at a time
he is not gonna mature as fast as you. he doesnt face the risks thatyou do
so u be careful but enjoy his enjoy the company while u have him
if u spend your whole time with him worrying out that u wont have any good memories
and later in life when u gonna hate men
2007-01-31 16:28:10 · answer #5 · answered by Rashon X 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
play his game and tell him you'll stop when he does guys hate that **** cuz we're possessive. and if he is in a relationship as in boyfriend girlfriends guys know that we give up the playa thang it when you're friends with benefits that is a no no
2007-01-31 16:24:18 · answer #6 · answered by Dodge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are not dogs that you "train" to be one way or the other. A person has to WANT to change. Plus, there is a lot of truth to the old adage "once a cheater, always a cheater." Don't waste your time on him.
2007-01-31 16:24:57 · answer #7 · answered by Nicole W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WRONG ATTITUDE...u should never go into any situationing thinking u can change a person, move on...your not in the guys league if you think thoughts like that.
2007-01-31 16:24:15 · answer #8 · answered by daaeck2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"What's good for the goose, is good for the gander." Let him know that it's not acceptable. Maybe if you play around a little he will see how it feels. Men (boys) can be very possessive, possibly you can make that work for you.
2007-01-31 16:24:03 · answer #9 · answered by Big D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you should get to know him more, and let him know how you feel, and if you guys start going out, wait for any wrong sign if he screws up then dump him, you worth alot for a player to come and hurt you. =]
2007-01-31 16:21:48 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋