2007-01-31 08:15:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
I assume you mean, "I cannot stand my daughter's to-be godmother". Punctuation is important!
Why would it be wrong? Go ahead. Since you can't stand her I don't imagine you are still planning on inviting her to the Baptism (if you are having one). Just explain to her that you've changed your mind. It's your choice.
2007-01-31 08:23:35 · answer #1 · answered by leaptad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it kind of is, but it also depends on what your relationship with the godmother is. If she is a close family member, that would be really awful, but if she is just a friend it wouldn't be AS bad. Also, if she only has a relationship with one parent it would be easier to let her down because you can tell her that you decided to go with someone that both parents know. Another way you could go, (I don't know the whole situation like if her boyfriend/husband is the Godfather) is you could have her as a godmother but then have another couple be the godparents. My brother is in that predicament right now. One of his friends just had a baby girl and the aunt and uncle are the godparents but my brother is also a godfather. So that way may be another option, at least then you don't have to spend all your time with the godmother that you don't like.
2007-01-31 08:32:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may be a perfect pill right now but it won't be forever. I put a lot of thought into who would be my son's godparents as I'm sure you did as well. There must have been some motivation that moved you at the time to choose her. Try and revisit that time and place when you made that decision. I would be devistated if someone gave me such a important position just to take it away --- good reason or not. This could be an emotional scar for her. I would understand if this position would require more responsibility, but let's face it: it's a position of honour and you really shouldn't take it back.
2007-01-31 16:51:11 · answer #3 · answered by Shorty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i will thoroughly relate! I have a chum who grow to be my best chum for the era of severe college, or perhaps years after severe college. after I had my toddler... even before that quite, we purely grew to grow to be diverse people. She looked extremely shallow and dingy to me and purely unlike someone i ought to flow to for severe situations. it isn't incorrect to regulate your ideas, that is faulty to decide on a God figure on your baby because they decide on to be the God figure, yet in reality in 5 yearsthey wont be contained in the youngster's existence anymore. decide on someone that you understand you'll sense positive in being there for the youngster. i'm one among 4 daughters, and one among my sisters hasnt considered her godparents on account that she grow to be a toddler, I see mine on each occasion i decide on... they're continuously reachable. I continuously concept my best chum should be my babys Godmother, yet now that she's the following I see that my sister is maximum in touch with her, and my best chum doesnt even call to confirm how she's doing mroe than once a month... so I replaced my ideas and determined on my sister being the Godmother. decide on whats best for the toddler.
2016-12-03 07:11:42 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, no it's not wrong. Be comfortable with whom you choose to be your child's godmother.
My mother's best friend of thirty years was my god-mother. Its not that she was chosen. I elected her. We were so close as I grew up, that I considered her my other mother. I loved her dearly, just as she loved my mom, brother, and I. Unfortunately, she has passed, and I miss her everyday.
How will your daughter have a bond with her if you can't?
2007-01-31 09:00:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope, just be like "im really sorry but i promised so and so first...' or somethign like "im really sorry but i dont want the baby being brought up ___ (whatever religion or believes she is/has)" or, the harder way, you coudl tell her the truth :-/
2007-01-31 08:24:19 · answer #6 · answered by newyork 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you can always change your mind, your question is a little unclear please elaborate
2007-01-31 08:20:41 · answer #7 · answered by melissa s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋