The guy that I like,finally started showing signs that he liked me too.He did me simple little things,and he would wait for everyone to leave except for me and him.I always caught him looking at me.Well,neither one of us took a chance,and some other girl did.Their going out now,they have been for 4 months.I still catch him looking at me,but rarely.If I start paying him more attention,will he like me again if he dont anymore?If I asked him out,when he and his girlfriend are over,do you think he'll say yes?Guys,if you like a girl,and then get over her,if she asks you out after youve moved on,would you go out with her?
2007-01-31 08:15:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OMG that happened to me! I fell for this guy @ the beginning of the school year, he liked me and I was in LOVE with him. From the second i met him, i knew something was gonna happen, The thing was we were both kind of shy so we never said anything to the other person. Then one day he started dating some girl. Everyone would always tell me that he didn't look at that girl the way he used to look at me. Well after a month into their relationship they started arguing, and eventually broke up. A month later he asked me out and we've been together ever since. Well I know that we'll be together forever, he's already given me a promise ring. So if you really like this guy, I say hold on to your dreams, dreams can come true....mine did.
2007-01-31 08:30:33 · answer #1 · answered by sugar & spice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
I am at high school too. Well I don`t think that the boy you like is worthed any bigger attention from you. As you said he moved on with some other girl which means that he was`t after you so much. If he was he would ignore the other girls and pay attention to you no matter what. Well he did`t do it so try to stop worrying and take him as a friend not as a boyfriend. Don`t ask him out because this is just not right, He should ask you out first.In the future remember that boys not always tell true. (had an experience of that)
More then glad to help and good luck
2007-01-31 08:27:26 · answer #2 · answered by litleteadybear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just move on and find someone else it may be hard but if he's been with her 4 months they probable aren't going to break up anytime soon, also a lot more details would be nice like what's the age difference and grade difference between you two, what type of people does he hang out with these are all important factors if you add any detail, I'll answer your questone again with more help but I just don't know enough about the situation. If you really like him then just leave him alone and I wouldn't give him too much attention because his girlfriend might find out and get ticked, trust me you don't want an angry girlfriend, lol. Hope this helps.
2007-01-31 08:22:47 · answer #3 · answered by hebblethwaitesgal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, dont worry about him. I did the same thing as a highschooler and its a waste of time. Save up some money, take out a loan, whatever, just go to college and live a little. Not that you cant find true love in highschool, but you cant possibly imagine the ways that you will have changed in 4-6years. You'll just be aware of how little everything from highschool ever mattered. Be strong, shoot even stay friends with the guy, but then say goodbye and youll be amazed at the guys youll meet down the line ;)
2007-01-31 08:24:10 · answer #4 · answered by pacnwgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there was nothing there in the first place except physical attraction it wouldnt be "moving on". Its not a big deal, just ask him out, obviously hes shy and doesnt want to take the chance of getting burned.
2007-01-31 08:19:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't make a move on this guy until he is well and truely out of the relationship with his girlfriend. You do not want to be 'that girl' who moves in on other girls boyfriends, its not a nice label. I suggest you move on with your life. there will be tons of guys just like him in your life. Use this experience for the next time you like a guy and maybe it will push you into making a move rather than not.
Good Luck xx
2007-01-31 08:19:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother. You've missed your chance, he didn't. He could have asked you but he asked another girl. Even if she asked him, if he was really interessted in you, he could have said NO to the other girl. He was playing with you and that's all. If he still looks at you even with the other girl, it shows that he likes playing around and keep you hanging on. He's not worth the effort, forget him and move on.
2007-01-31 08:20:51 · answer #7 · answered by Mightymo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well relationships don't last that long but then again you never know. ok that didn't really help did it. but sure pay more attention to him. flirting doesn't hurt either LOL. what my new moral thing a jig is "take risks. live life. because thats how you learn and HAVE FUN!"
2007-01-31 08:23:22 · answer #8 · answered by wintermag52 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It form of relies upon. i've got self belief like maximum relationships are valueless, yet they are relaxing, and you're able to have relaxing in intense college. (yet assorted time, whether a pair could nonetheless like one yet another, they get seperated while they flow off to college or flow...) yet i myself be attentive to fairly some people who married their intense college sweethearts.
2016-11-01 23:51:23 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would. I would be able to understand you point of view and if I liked you before, defiantly. That's because I wanted to go out with you before, but wasn't sure of your point of view
2007-01-31 08:21:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋