He asked her out, after knowing that i liked her. I found out that he doesnt really like her and is only trying to get some. I really like this girl & she knows that i like her & i think she likes me. What should i do? Should i talk to my friend about it? Should i talk to her about it? Please help!!!
2007-01-31 08:09:31 · 16 answers · asked by Luis B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
have you considered she might be a taste tester?-ie. wants you both-one at a time
2007-01-31 08:23:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he isn't really into her then their relationship with eventually sizzle. Wait it out and then try to talk to her first to see if the two of you have a connections. Talk to your friend after you know whats gonna happen with you and the girl. Theres no need for a cat fight now!
2007-01-31 16:14:17 · answer #2 · answered by lacyangl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the fact that he asked her out knowing that you liked her shows that he is no friend of yours. I can tell you this she doesn't like you, if she did she wouldn't be with your friend. You're wasting your time with both tell her how you feel, but don't tell her your friends reasons for going out with her because out of spite she may go out with you, in which she doesn't have feelings for you and if he apologizes or makes amends then she'll go running back to him making you look like the fool. I'd leave her and him alone, find some better friends and find a girl who is worthy of your like and love. Good luck sweetie!
2007-01-31 16:14:17 · answer #3 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to you're friend about it first. If he doesn't give a crap that you care about her and not after her just for some A$$ then he should back up and let you go at it. He needs to be honest though.
2007-01-31 16:12:35 · answer #4 · answered by lotsofluv007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends how much you like her. If you really really have a thing for her ... think it could be serious ... you need to tell your friend "Hey, I'm going for it with her. You only want her for XYZ and I really like her." Then you HAVE to tell this girl what your friend is up to. Otherwise ... if he leaves her heartbroken and used, some of that negative emotion she's feeling towards him will automatically reflect some on you. (because you are his buddy.)
2007-01-31 16:15:05 · answer #5 · answered by Arabelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your friend about it first. And then, you should be able to decide whether or not it is worth talking to her about it. Did he tell you that? Are you sure that is what he wants from her? Or are you hoping that, so you can break them up? Be honest with yourself and your friend. If you are honest with yourself, then you'll take her away from the pain it may cause later.
2007-01-31 16:18:53 · answer #6 · answered by courtneyscottusa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to her first. Don't bring up your friend unless she talks first. If she wants more than what your friend is giving her, she will see you through. I think If this girl is important to you, you will talk to her first.
2007-01-31 16:17:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it, tell her what he is up to. You might lose him over this, but he doesn't sound like much of a friend anyway! if you like her go get her!!
2007-01-31 16:12:49 · answer #8 · answered by pippy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until your friend has had his go at her and then you can swoop in for the kill.
Bro's before ho's my friend. You should have stepped up faster if you were interested.
2007-01-31 16:13:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u attract to her from the beginning why u just had her friend... just tell the truth and u will lose them both because this is what happened to me... good luck
2007-01-31 16:15:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just be silent for now and see what happens. Just relax because your friend will get bored with her and eventually dump her or she may dump him first. RELAX and observe!!
2007-01-31 16:14:49 · answer #11 · answered by The girl next door 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋