I met a wonderful man at owrk. When we met we just clicked. Since then we have been really close friends and we talk about anything and everything. I think over time I have fallen in love with him. Thing is we are both married. I wouldn't let anything happen between us for aour marriages sake but should I tell him how I feel? I have felt like this for about a year?
2007-01-31 08:09:07 · 21 answers · asked by jugs_21 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO, leave well enough alone. But, you need to pay more attention to your marriage and realize their is something missing. Is what you are doing is focusing all your good feelings towards this guy at work, and getting daily relief. You don't know how it would be living day in and day out with this guy. It could be completely different! Your only seeing the "good"-"nice" part of him..Think about it!!! No kids, no bill problems-just time for pleasant talk.....Maybe you should have a good talk with his wife, I bet she would paint you the real him picture. You both are morally wrong, and how would you feel if it was your spouses doing this to the two of you? God forbid!!
2007-01-31 08:20:42 · answer #1 · answered by sue d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look you don't intend to end your marriage, and besides what would be the point in telling him when your not going to instigate anything.
So you have to make the decision yourself do you want your husband and the life you have been building for years, or do you want a short passionate fling with somoene elses husband.
Its up to you!
2007-01-31 23:31:08 · answer #2 · answered by girl-mechanicxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should let him know how you feel, A guy is not worth destroying your marriage over. Its not fair for your husband, and kids if you do have. Talk to man you like about it.
2007-01-31 08:12:43 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sort of relationship is always fraught with danger. Suppose you go for it and it breaks down. Suppose you have misread the situation and he likes and respects you as a co-worker [yes it is possible!]. It all goes wrong and you have to continue to work together. Guess who would get to move on or be moved? You!
2007-01-31 08:14:54 · answer #4 · answered by Davy B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,whats the point if your both happily married?
You`ve managed for a year so just continue as normal,he may not feel the same as you do and it may cause awkwardness between you both.
2007-01-31 08:13:35 · answer #5 · answered by onlyme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might think that you love him but most likely its infatuation. he's out of your reach because you are both married. its more an obsession with alot of wot if's. try going abit longer before u tell him how you feel. telling could end up destroying both marriages. good luck and think very carfully
2007-01-31 08:23:49 · answer #6 · answered by marie-1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you wouldn't let anything happen then why would you tell him how you feel? What purpose would that serve?
Walk away or cheat but don't lie to yourself about it.
2007-01-31 08:14:00 · answer #7 · answered by afarensis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No leave it well alone. If you tell him you could either drive a wedge in your friendship or he may think its a chance of a bit of easy fun, but if you play with fire you always get burnt!!!!
2007-01-31 08:19:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats the point if nothing is ever going to come of it...I would try to find a new job!
2007-01-31 08:13:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u dont want to risk ur marriage dont tell him
also u might destroy this friendship u like so much
i really dont know what u should do , what do u think he is feeling ???
2007-01-31 18:55:40 · answer #10 · answered by athina68 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋