How can I save her soul?

Question

i have been friends w/ this girl for about 5 yrs. i hate how she has changed so much. she got this really UGLY boyfriend who i think has no respect for her. i think that b/c he's the only guy who's ever asked her out she doesn't want to break up. anyways, now she acts like she is the hottest thing around and it discusses me how she is always cursing! how do i confront her about Jesus? i want her to be saved but it's so hard to talk to her now. please be serious about your answers.

Answer 1

You can't save anybody but your self sweety,the best you can do is love her right where she is at.That's how God first loved us,remember.

Answer 2

you have to show her the reasons why you are disliking her life choices and why you think they are bad for her. If you want a serious answer, I'll give it to you, but I ask that you seriously consider leaving Jesus out of the argument. It is very simple and plain to see that her man is bad for her, it's a bit harder believing a religion she might not be comfortable with. And before stating it, I'd think about exactly what is wrong with this guy, and hope you can come up with more reasons than him being UGLY.

Answer 3

First, I fear for your soul if you are concerned about what this guy looks like. Second, just talk to her about how this guy treats her and what she wants out of this relationship and how she needs to develop some self respect. Just be a friend.

Then, maybe you can ask if she is interested in Jesus, but I'd be more worried about helping her find her self esteem first.

Answer 4

The Boyfriend will eventually disapoint her. She will hurt. Be a friend , tel her about the love of Jesus.

Answer 5

you can not save her, you are not God. You`re only responsibility is to show her the right way to go. Then, let her make her decision, and of course, keep on praying for her.

Answer 6

You have absolutely no right to push your beliefs on other people,if she is a genuine friend, she needs GENUINE friendship, not your version of it. `Saved`, is a selfish word, used by the weak to justify pushing their noses into other folks lives!

Answer 7

You CAN'T -- All you can do is keep praying for her -- and if she is
at all receptive, you can keep talking to her about accepting Jesus
as her personal Savior and Lord.
When you pray, you can KNOW without even wondering about it or doubting it, that God wants your friend to be saved so much more than you do, as He is not willing for ANY to perish/
Ask that He would send someone into her life that she would be receptive to and that this person could lead her to Jesus.

I know -- I am praying for all of my loved ones to be saved, especially my sister who just turned 49 and has struggled with drugs much of her life and has been in and out of prison and has serious medical problems because of it.
The only thing that I can do now is to keep praying for her.
My other family members are not receptive either to any talk on
religion.
Do you know what your friend believes will happen to her when she leaves this world and does she know that one day, she WILL
stand before Almighty God and give account for her life and what
she has done with his offer of mercy and grace through His Son, Who died for her on the cross?
Does she believe she's automatically going to go to heaven just because she dies and leaves this world?
Maybe this could be a good starting point for a discussion about eternity and salvation.
Yes, it would surely be nice if we could all say "magic words" and
get everyone that we care about to accept Jesus and make sure
of their eternity in heaven, but we can't and God won't.

God is the One Who actually paid for our eternal salvation, but He
leaves the CHOICE and the RESPONSIBILITY up to each and every one of us. He will never FORCE His will on any one of us even when He KNOWS what awaits everyone who rejects His Son as Savior and Lord -- or they just die before they get around
to getting saved.

Without Jesus, we would ALL be condemned to a hopeless eternity in hell, but Jesus paid for all our sins, so that we would be
FREE to make the choice that Adam gave to satan in the Garden
of Eden.

If you want, you can pass along this number to your friend if she would like to call someone and talk -- OR -- you can call, as I have done so many times - and ask someone to pray and agree
with me for my family and loved ones to be saved, but the choice
is ultimately THEIRS to make, no matter how hard it is for us, as believers, to stand by, KNOWING that those we love are playing RUSSIAN ROULETTE with eternity with every heart beat!!!

So imagine how God must feel when He watches as man dies and goes into eternal hell when he could be in heaven forever....

GOD BLESS YOU AND ALL OF MY BROTHERS AND SISTERS
IN Y'SHUA (Jesus) OUR LORD AND SAVIOR......