The guy i really like is very good looking and can get alot of girls there was a time that me and him were close really close and i THINK he still likes me i dunno but the prob i have is just knowing of the fact that i know he can get alot of women makes me feel that he can do better than me and everytime i come around him i feel like im ugly and i get hard on myself because his ex's are really skinny and im a lil chubby . what can i do to escape this feeling ? It ruins my mood everyday.
2007-01-31 08:04:41 · 11 answers · asked by Heaven <3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
baby girl, he chosed to be with you right? and you're not ugly right? i'm pretty sure you're a smart girl. right? he sees beauty beyond skin deep. what i'm trying to say is that your inner beauty out shine them all.
2007-01-31 08:14:45 · answer #1 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ur great and u shouldn't get down b/c of a guy. if he can't appreciate u and only you, then he doesn't deserve you. look in ur mirror and look at all the good things about you. everyone has good features. and bad ones, so the next time u look at his ex, look at how her eyes are a little too close together or how another has a huge zit coming up on the side of her cheek. lol. u'll find the right guy and if this is the one, he'll love u no matter what u look like. i'm sure ur not ugly b/c he does/has in the past like u
2007-01-31 08:14:43 · answer #2 · answered by cdun1111 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have confidence in yourself. The weight issue you have is your issue in your head. I am dating a girl that is 170lbs and 5'0" and I love her to death and I think the world of her. It isn't all about superficial stuff. If you have a good heart and treat him well and he goes out with someone else then find someone who will love you for you. As the old saying goes, there a plenty of fish in the sea. I know it's hard because you really like him but try to talk with other guys too that you are interested in so you don't get so caught up in this one person until you know the feelings are reciprocated by him.
2007-01-31 08:12:02 · answer #3 · answered by kws504 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
More and more people think that a little chubby is far hotter than really skinny...it's possible that he was only with them to "up his image" because he thought that was who he was supposed to date. Now he realizes that all that is BS and wants a nice and truly special girl(you). So cheer up and enjoy that the one you really like also likes you.
2007-01-31 08:10:22 · answer #4 · answered by wbyrdie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he gets girls all of the time, he is so a player. Don't be with someone that makes you feel bad every day, but find someone that likes you in your own skin. Just follow your heart, it will know what to do. Good Luck!
XOXO,
Miss Rachel
2007-01-31 08:10:46 · answer #5 · answered by Katherine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If hes with you then there must be something there. You have to think that he really likes you if you know he can get others and hes with you. Besides.... ive been to Miami twice and i dont understand how any of you down there can be in relationships.. Everyone I saw looked like they were someone elses fantasy!!
2007-01-31 08:11:29 · answer #6 · answered by The Answer Guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to club Mansion on South Beach and shake your booty
2007-01-31 08:09:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stop ruining your mood, and your self image, and go do something about it...
2007-01-31 08:07:58 · answer #8 · answered by momof3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he just wants to be friends leave it at that. Your true love will love you for you you are.
2007-01-31 08:08:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax and enjoy yourself
2007-01-31 08:10:04 · answer #10 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋