My new BF is on the smaller end of average if you know what I mean. It doesn't bother me at all and the chemestry between us is amazing.
My problem / question is that he doesn't exactly hit my spot if you catch my drift. What are some tricks / positions / maneuvers I can do or try to be more satisfied?
Thanks
2007-01-31 07:55:16 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hve him buy u a dildo that is big enough and use it on you after he is done getttng his
2007-01-31 07:58:22 · answer #1 · answered by Chrissie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You said it doesnt bother you and you got amazing chemistry but at the same time you experiencing problems because he DONT CATCH YOUR DRIFT. I am afraid i dont have good news for you girlfriend. If after all sex positions you already have tried he didnt already hit your drift by now then i am afraid there is nothing he really can do. I guess he is really smaller then average because i had those before and they would make me orgasm all the time. Maybe you shouldnt be with him or yall just meant to be together because even though sex you may say is not the most important thing but its very part of our lives that builds a perfect relationship.
Try some kama sutra with him...try to be a lil more opened for him if you what i mean....if that dont work then I am afraid you might have to make that decision for your own good.....Good luck
2007-01-31 08:09:55 · answer #2 · answered by BK thang 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Which "spot" are we talking? If you mean "g" spot then I haven't met the penis yet that get's that one right without quite a bit of help. Well, hell, a penis doesn't actually do much for me at all without the right position and some handwork anyway, no matter what one does!
Honey, it definately takes a "hand" no matter the size, the plan, the prize or the man! It just takes some dedication no matter what he has. There really are no tricks, that I know of.
I'll try to go into a little detail here and risk my answer and my account, but hey, I do it every day anyway.
Any position that affords a little space for your hand or his hand is going to be a better one. I don't know if you are shy or not, but try not to be. Most men are not going to mind if you "work on" yourself a little during intercourse and most will actually welcome it. They are quite visual creatures and usually will love you in any position where they can watch. On all fours with them behind gives them a bird's eye view of your lovely bottom and lets you reach or them reach around to the front. The only drawback is there is no eye contact. You on his lap solves this and makes him just as happy but if he is small affords less penetration. A modified missionary with your knees pulled tight against your chest may work well for you if you are flexible.
Don't think in terms of just intercourse. Remember that sex is play and that it is supposed to be caring and fun for both of you. The best thing is to discuss this with your man. Believe me, he is going to want to please you and the best way for him to do that is to watch you please yourself. He will love it and he will learn at the same time. Practice while alone and you will feel more comfortabe when you are with him. Think in terms of being erotic and not in terms of just "getting off".
Now, if this squeeks thru, I'll be amazed. Just remember to enjoy one another, enjoy yourself, make it about caring and love.
2007-01-31 08:16:37 · answer #3 · answered by Ande 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, my name is Lauren too!
I suggest trying doggy...or you can do missionary, but with your legs hooked over his shoulders.
Another thing you might try is having a full bladder. Don't worry about peein on him, you wont. I noticed that when I was with a smaller than average guy, that if I have a full bladder, sex is like a MILLION times better. I don't know why but it really hits the spot...and the feeling is intense!!
2007-01-31 08:01:06 · answer #4 · answered by Miz D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use a toy or fingers to help. Have you tried lifting your legs up over your head while laying on your back? That's supposed to do wonders for hitting the right spots! Come on over and I'll show ya.... hehe!
2007-01-31 08:08:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im glad dat u really dont care about the size. it is a fact dat bigger is not always better. maybe u n your mate should go and get a book about sex position and experiment with each other. you should buy this book titled "why do men fall asleep after sex",u will find alot of answer to your questions. good luck girl..
2007-01-31 08:05:20 · answer #6 · answered by edwin t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys need some practice, If he knows how to work it, It would probably feel alot better, Anyway, You should get your boyfriend and sit him down and sit on top of him which you guys are face to face and try that position...If not, Then buy a 7 inch d.i.l.d.o. lol Good Luck!
2007-01-31 08:01:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a guy strugglin with the size issue, 'cause I'm asian, I always go down town. I don't like it if a girl doesn't orgasm. So even if I'm not hittin the spot with my wee-guy, then I'm takin her home with the tongue
2007-01-31 08:01:14 · answer #8 · answered by kane_derick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You tell him what you want him to do to excite you..
He can use toys, hands, mouth etc. etc.
You have more control when sitting on him...
For whatever it is worth,
Vagina size varies as much as Penis size.
Indians have the smallest average penis size in the world...
2007-01-31 08:02:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fingers. Simply said.
2007-01-31 07:59:07 · answer #10 · answered by venturemomma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lay on your side and bend your top leg up towards your chest. Have him kneel over your lower leg and enter.
2007-01-31 07:58:58 · answer #11 · answered by wbyrdie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋