His father has him and wont let me see him.
2007-01-31 07:51:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
You need to get a lawyer fast!
Good Luck!
2007-01-31 08:22:51 · answer #1 · answered by Only Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same situation. My ex took custody of my son 4 years ago. The courts found that I was a very good mother, loving and supportive of my son's type 1 diabetes. However, what counts with the courts is who can tell a better story. My ex wins every time in court, no matter what we are there for. I agree with "fasteddie" in that going through the courts won't help. But take a look at what you are doing with your life while in this situation and also know that there is a plan in the works that no one can see only God. From my experience I have found that my son has started to turn on his father and not "idolize" him the way he did before since he is forced to live with him. My son and I am sure that yours too is looking at this person he has to live with and wishes and prays that he could be with you. It is making him stronger and may not be as bad as you feel it is. I know that I have come along way in my life since losing my son and I believe that I will get him back by only doing what I am doing now. Being kind, and letting go of the anger, hatred and just focusing on healing and growing. Your son will see you and emanate you because you will be a positive in his life. Just love your son and when opportunities arise that you feel the need to do something then do what is asked of you but always do it with love, for yourself and for your son. God bless you....
2007-02-03 00:20:00 · answer #2 · answered by smartcall 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
want some real adsvice from a father who's been there and back? let him have him and just say ' its nice to have some free time to do what i want' i bet he's only trying to keep him cos he knows the thought of it distreesses you. stay calm, act like you dont mind and say 'thank you for taking care of your son so well' ( i know you wont mean it) it'll throw him off balance then just sit and wait, he bring him back soon enough, the best advice i can give is dont go to the courts, find a man that you trust and can talk to that is calm and level headed (not a woman) men know how other men think, ask him how men think, you'll be surprised - if you handle it right your son will be back with you almost instantly, stay calm at all times, have you heard the saying you catch more flies with honey than vinegar ie, be nice and sweet at all times and you'll get your son back permanantley , never under any circumstances try to force the issue with lawyers, cops, etc etc, men can dig their heels in like stubborn mules, think smartly and good luck
2007-01-31 16:45:52 · answer #3 · answered by fast eddie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fast eddie is right up to a point...that will only work if your ex dont want the reposiblity of caring for a child ..or if he not the vengful type or if he not the type to get out of paying for child support.. if he wants revenge or childsupport then i would suggest you get a lawyer.. you could wait it out for a few months to see if fast eddie is right on this .. he could be... my sister in law ex took there girls.. he did not want them and treated them like crap while he treated his new wife children like little princes and princess.. it took a year in court for her to get them back .. good luck.. and you know your ex better than yahoo
2007-01-31 16:52:54 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UNLESS YOU ARE A DRUG ADDICT/ ALCOHOLIC/ CHiLD ABUSER THEN TAKE IT TO COURT, iF YOU ARE ANY OF THE ONES ABOVE THEN GET HELP && TALK TO THE DAD && TELL HIM YOU GOT HELP<<<
2007-01-31 16:39:13
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