2007-01-31 07:46:00 · 31 answers · asked by gypsy girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hun its hard on you, but thats what a lot of guys are like, and if you will stay their friend they will love that so wen things get tough with her he can jump back in bed with you , and play you two against each other, hes very immature your better off without him 6 yrs is a long time how do you know hes only bin seeing her 6 mnths? id wash all trace of him out of your life and get on with things act like you dont care and just ignore him when he comes back
2007-01-31 07:52:16 · answer #1 · answered by 0000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i`m not certain that my ex is moving in with her exactly but we were also together 6 years and have a 4 year old son and he just left again under a month ago,i`m pretty sure it`s for the same girl as last time,i think he couldn`t handle the guilt last time but this time he seems to be doing a good job.
It`s hard but i`m guessing he was seeing her for much longer than you know,sorry but it`s just my opinion.Chin up!!
2007-01-31 07:57:18 · answer #2 · answered by onlyme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This question is much for complex than any type of simple answer. You didnt leave us with many details, but there are many men and women who just cannot be alone. Their fear of abandonment is so unconscience that the first person that comes along feels like real love to them.. They actually truly feel like they are in love with that person and want to be in the same state they were in when they were in love. But the truth is, those feelings for the new person are a just a camouflage to cover up their own insecurities. I am so sorry you have to go through the pain you are feeling now.. I am in a similar situation and I have spent the last four months processing what happened in my relationship. YOU WILL BE HEALTHIER when you begin to heal, because you are dealing with your feelings and working them through. Your exboyfriend will be in a constant state of moving on to the next and will never fully be happy.
2007-01-31 08:01:26 · answer #3 · answered by LEE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
happened to me only it was 7 years
he started saying he was reaching 50 an 'didn't know what he wanted
he wanted me to move out while he 'thought about it'
i asked him if there was someone else and he repeatedly told me 'no'
his new woman found my email address and emailed me when she was drunk to let me know what was happening
i felt so utterly hearbroken at the time but i refused to let it get me down
i went out and found myself another partner and we have been together just over 2 years - i was 50 last year and my new partner is 57
never give up - it is never too late to start again and find happiness
ok - i expect he was lying to you but all men are NOT the same - ingore the fact that i married a 'bar steward' if you'll pardon my almost french
i wish you all the happiness in the world
the best 'revenge' you can get is for him to know that you have got on with your life
much as i still love my ex - i made up my mind that being friends was asking too much - i wanted him back - but after waking up to the fact of how much he hurt me i would NEVER go back with him - even if my life depended on it
be proud to be who you are
2007-01-31 08:03:08 · answer #4 · answered by frogg135 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy he can just pack his stuff up and go, sweetie I know you probably don't want to hear this, but he was probably using you and he's using her too so don't worry they'll both get what they deserve. Don't waste your time dwelling on him. Move on. The next time you're with someone don't move in with him and don't let him live with you until he decides to commit as in you two being married then he doesn't deserve the right of living or sleeping with you. There are still good men out there, good luck sweetie!
2007-01-31 07:54:14 · answer #5 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he checked out of your relationship sometime ago. He may have given signals and he may not. Only someone with an inferior character would be able to do something like that so as difficult as it may be right now, count yourself lucky that you didn't marry him. He's someone else's burden now and you can look forward to a time when you are ready to find someone who will truly love and respect you. Good luck and God bless.
2007-01-31 07:54:55 · answer #6 · answered by stseukn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sad, I know - but remember if he did it to you, he'll most probably do it to her.
She's lovin' it now - but there'll be tears further down the line.
Just sit back and wait.
It's easier said that done, I know, but keep your dignity and move forward with your life - you so obviously were too good for him.
Best of luck.
2007-01-31 07:53:14 · answer #7 · answered by Moofie's Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This just happend to a friend I know. She was with him for 5-6 years and then they just broke up and he's already staying at the other's girls house. =( Not right!
Obviously he was cheating on her way before she knew it. They were supposed to get married and next thing you know BAMMM he's cheating and he is gone!
2007-01-31 07:50:15 · answer #8 · answered by lotsofluv007 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because alot of men are insencitive jerks who have no true feelings of what love is!! Just hang in there and you'll be able to get through this and move on yourself!
2007-01-31 07:51:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they dont really care even though it was 6 years in his head he may have moved on 2 years ago. just learn to do the same good luck
2007-01-31 07:51:59 · answer #10 · answered by mekitty1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋