I have been dating this man for several months. We have both said we want to have children and get married. We have discussed it and he knows that I only have maybe 3-4 years to have children. One minute he is making plans and the next he says we just need a little more time. He is an awesome man and would make a wonderful husband. He is also a bit of a Momma's boy but she lives hundreds of miles away so not that big a problem. Do you think he is dragging his feet? I say when you know you know and it does not matter how long you have been dating. He says it should be at least a year. So who do you agree wth Me or him?
2007-01-31 07:40:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey when somebody is serious they are serious..He is just waiting for the right person come along so he have you just in case the right one doesn't come along he really is not that in to you...I know coupples that 16 days after they got marry and they going on their 40 aniversary does that make sense? If you are ready means he is not ready...Move on
2007-01-31 08:05:01 · answer #1 · answered by nena_en_austin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's mostly about what you think...what does you're gutt tell you?
I've been with my BF for 4-5 months (and known him for 10 years) and well we've talked about moving in toghether in about a year. He brought it up, not me. I think there is no rush unless you really want to get on the ball of having kids...but, it takes two and you might want to make sure that he wants the same, cause actions speak louder than words!
2007-01-31 07:45:56 · answer #2 · answered by lotsofluv007 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i say i agree with him. wait till u two have been dating for at least 2 to 3 years.
2007-01-31 07:54:01 · answer #3 · answered by Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he really does want to be with you, but he may wonder that the only reason you want to be with him is that your biological clock is ticking.
A year is not that long to wait.
-from someone who has about the same amount of time left for childbearing as you.
2007-01-31 07:51:19 · answer #4 · answered by afarensis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he's serious at the time when he says it. An hour later he could be serious again about the total opposite of what he originally said.
2007-01-31 07:44:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither and both. If he's not ready, you don't want to rush him. He sounds ready but scared. Don't be pushy, he'll run. If you can't wait a year, you aren't ready either. If it's meant to be it will be.
2007-01-31 07:45:10 · answer #6 · answered by blwileygp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋