She is American married to a Pakistani male for 5 years now. She was married around the same time I was but I divorced. Now it seems she's going through something like what I went through. She also has two children like me. Her relationship with her husband has been deteriorating for some time now, and a few days ago she told me that he said he wants to go alone to Pakistan. His brother takes his three children and wife every year and they both make the same amount of money. He told her if she wants to go, she should pay her way. From experience, when a Pakistani man wants to go alone while married in the US (I've seen it happen a few times now but never to me, I'd kill him first), they are going there to marry a girl about 16-24. They then come back and divorce their wives. She told him if he did go that she would file for divorce and take both children, full custody. He said he didn't care. She said it a day later. He said he didn't care. He plans to go in June.
2007-01-31 07:39:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
The question is, can she file for abandonment? How can she go through the divorce as quickly as possible while he's gone or even before? He's planning on leaving her, a housewife, to her own defenses when he goes and she is very serious about divorce. The marriage is too far gone (think verbal abuse, emotional abuse, and physical abuse) as it is. So what can she do?
2007-01-31 07:40:38 · update #1
This isn't as much of a religious question as it is a legal question. This is something your friend would have to talk to a lawyer or attorney about. They would be able to answer any questions and get the paperwork rolling.
2007-01-31 07:52:34 · answer #1 · answered by lavos1412 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Clearly your friend needs to take steps to protect herself legally - and fast. She needs to consult a lawyer immediately. June will be here before she knows what hit her. She needs to begin documenting everything she does, so that when the eventually end up in court she has a detailed timeline of how events unfolded.
)O(
2007-01-31 08:04:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's what happens when u marry a Muslim.
2007-01-31 15:08:45 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Booh♥ ☺☺☺☺☺ 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
if ur asking religiously, then ask an imam
2007-01-31 07:59:46 · answer #4 · answered by imputh 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
yawn...............................
2007-01-31 07:47:30 · answer #5 · answered by Evil Atheist Conspirator 4 · 1⤊ 5⤋