If you dated a guy and he scared you off by showing hes too keen, would you give them a second chance?
2007-01-31 07:30:03 · 19 answers · asked by medic_man 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just need some advice for my mate
2007-01-31 07:32:17 · update #1
This is happening to me now, someone i've been out with a few times and i see around is very keen, texting me and asking me out all the time for the past 2 months... And i don't know what to do! I am flattered but at the same time it scares me off so i'm always being very vague and things aren't really moving. It's typical, we prefer the 'hard to get' guys.
2007-01-31 07:40:46 · answer #1 · answered by sbro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me being too keen is better than trying to play it really cool like you are not so keen even though u are on a date with her. but how keen is keen here? did you talk about marriage or moving in together. if didn't then you can still redeem yourself. just give it a couple of days then ring her and tell her it is unlike you to be too forward but that you were a little nervous and that was why you came across the way you did
2007-01-31 07:38:17 · answer #2 · answered by snowflakes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd never go out with the same guy twice but if it's the first date and he's coming on to keen i'd tell him to calm down and put it down to neves and give him a second chance
2007-01-31 08:33:34 · answer #3 · answered by nat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldgive him another chance, but i would tell him to just calm down and take it a step back. Maybe he was just excited or nervous and that is definitally ok. Not every first date is perfect and that is the way i should be. reality is tough sometimes but women can't expect a fairytale
2007-01-31 07:35:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not. We don't like "clingy" just as much as you don't.
If he wanted a second chance, he'd better be aloof about it. He needs to be in her line of sight, but still be out of the way. Tell him to make her come to him, by sort of "dangling" himself as bait.
Only problem is that she might not take the bait....ever. If not, he can just move on.
I love English guys. Tell your friend to come to Chicago!
2007-01-31 07:38:51 · answer #5 · answered by Miz D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the guy!! i would probably give him a second chance i think everyone deserves a second chance!! just tell him to chill out and calm down!! just let things happen!! if they happen then they happen if they dont then oh well!!!!
2007-01-31 07:40:46 · answer #6 · answered by socerchic2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
treat him mean nd keep him keen
girls WANT men to be keen,it boosts our confidences up
gud luck
x ^-^ x
2007-01-31 08:33:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No because if you actually liked him enough in the first place.. then he wouldnt have scared you
2007-01-31 07:32:22 · answer #8 · answered by Shellie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone deserves a 2nd chance;)
2007-01-31 07:32:38 · answer #9 · answered by MaryBeth 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
yep if i really liked him i would give him a second chance.
2007-01-31 20:07:37 · answer #10 · answered by Fallen Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋