So lets say i have this friend named Jackie. she is a freshman in high school and her homecoming date, Steven is a freshman too. Jackie was still really hurt by her last boyfriend at the time and she thinks she might have pushed him away because she was afraid of getting hurt again and she wasnt quite over her ex. now Steven is dating a senior named Laura who is new to the school this year and has a lot of freshman friends. Jackie is really good friends with Laura, but now Jackie really likes Steven again. Jackie and Steven are talking a lot every day and spending a lot of time together and even flirting and stuff and she really really likes him, and thinks Steven might like her back but she doesnt want to hurt Laura. Jackie's other friend, Allison, likes Steven too (popular guy I guess) and Steven knows it and him and Allison are still really good friends. Should Jackie tell Steven how she feels, and if she should what should she say?
2007-01-31 07:30:03 · 8 answers · asked by ♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Boyfriends come and go ,but real friends don't come and go ! You decide if she's a real friend or not. And somthing else ,losing a friend just 4 a boy now that's not really that good!.Even if she's not a real friend now she might be a real friend later on,or maybe a best friend!
2007-01-31 07:44:23 · answer #1 · answered by orange 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all.... All guy are not the same. Just because Jackie was hurt in the past by her ex doesnt mean that this guy will do the same. I say Jackie got some real competition on her hands which means its crunch time. She can either let some other hoochie score the man of dreams(maybe), or she can put her game face, and handle her bussiness like a real woman supposed to do. I say that Jackie should wait until Steven is in front of all her competition then walk up and steal him with conversation follow by a kiss on his cheek. The conversation must be expressing your feelings,but dont poor your heart just yet. My email is hannerlove07@yahoo.com, let me know how things go?
2007-01-31 15:45:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No no no no!!! Jakie will be putting her friendship at risk and will be portraying laura a boys not worth risking a friend for. Boys come and go but friendships last a long time. Laura might find out and then will not be happy with Jakie and this could ruin their friendship. If they split up then that is when it could be a good idea to let steven no.
2007-01-31 15:41:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well really Jackie is the only one who knows the answer to this question!! i know that sucks to hear but its all up to her the best advise i can give would have to be fallow your heart and the rest will fall in to its place! tell Jackie to listen to her heart!!!
2007-01-31 15:36:49 · answer #4 · answered by socerchic2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do not go there unless you want to lose the friendship. If you think he is worth losing a friend then go for t. Otherwise just ignore the feeling. It will go away when the next hot guy comes along.
2007-01-31 15:34:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you really can't tell him if you don't want to hurt your friend because your friends are for life but boys come a dime a dozen and if that really is your friend you won't even say anything about it....
2007-01-31 15:35:20 · answer #6 · answered by Badydoll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say tell ur friend to get a life and get a guy of her own.
2007-01-31 15:33:19 · answer #7 · answered by Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want him, take him. If you can seduce him, he is not really all that into the other girl anyway.
2007-01-31 15:33:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋