I've always known my girlfriend is the jealous type. She's real jealous of my brothers fiance. When they bought a house, she told me we need a house. When they bought a new car, she said we need a new car, the same one they got. Well my gal was looking on myspace and discovered my bro & his gal are getting married. The next day someone got into my brothers fiances email, and her ebay acct. They started sending all her messages to a bunch of people. My brother told me right away it was my gal, I told him there was no way. Well, ebay gave them an IP# and it tracked to my gals job! I asked her and she said it wasn't her. Now she's mad at me for not believing her. My brother says I'm stupid not to believe the proof. She also told me someone at her job stold a lap top and this person has been hacking into a bunch of peoples stuff. I found out that never happened. Is she lying? Why won't she tell me if she did it? What should I do?
2007-01-31 07:21:14 · 13 answers · asked by Jenny 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds exactly like she is lying to you. she probably wont admit it cause she feels really dumb about it now. if she feels jealous about your brother and his g/f already all signs point to her that it was her. you may not want to believe it cause you care for her, but sounds like the proof is right there. she needs some therapy to work through her issues it sounds like and if she isnt willing to make your relationship better, and shes lying to you, i would get rid of her, its only going to cause more problems in the future.
2007-01-31 07:28:34 · answer #1 · answered by saphirespice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just from the information you are giving she sounds crazy..sorry.. The facts are there so you know she is lieing, i think you need to turn the tables around on her. She is getting mad that the facts point to her and she is lieing about it your the one that needs to be telling her that you are disappointed in her, that one she broke into your brothers stuff and two for LIEING about it.. Need to let her know it cant continue and if it does the relationship wont work.. need to ler her know that the relationship is about you two not you two and your brother and his fiance. I dont know all the details but it sounds like you need to stand up to her.. Good luck
2007-01-31 07:30:58 · answer #2 · answered by pirategirl1103 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to drop this woman like a bad habit. Even if you set the identity theft issues aside, her jealousy is a major problem. Do you really want to spend you life with a woman who is so concerned with keeping up with the Joneses? When you factor the identity theft in the equation, you've also got a woman you can't trust.
Drop her now before she really causes problems. At least that's my take.
2007-01-31 07:30:29 · answer #3 · answered by Justin H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm a girl, and I think you need to dump your girlfriend. She probably thinks that you're not committed to her, and she is jealous that another girl has a guy really commited to her. Obviously, she must really love you. But, ruining somebody's reputation isn't something that the girlfriend of yours should have done. If she really loved you, she'd understand that you needed to take some time in your relationship. But, she doesn't. Trust me. I liked this guy, but this other girl liked him too, but I didn't ruin her reputation. I let him go. Best of Luck
2007-01-31 07:27:48 · answer #4 · answered by i<3hsm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um uh dude...if I was in your shoes I would be running. Seriously she sounds like she has some issues and needs to grow up. You do not need this in your life. You sound like a nice guy. You might want to think about ending it. I can tell you it will only get worse. Best of luck to you!
2007-01-31 07:26:16 · answer #5 · answered by mysweetluvie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That crosses the line! You just had a small taste of things to come. Get out while your still alive!
2007-01-31 07:27:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be completely honest...i really think your girl is lying to your face...its completely natural to jealous but what she is doing is above and beyond...i would have a serious talk with her about lying to you...you have all the proof you need...but thats just me
2007-01-31 07:29:40 · answer #7 · answered by brett w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should open yourself to her and say everything that you think about that situation to her, and tell her what are your feelings to her. Explain her that relationships without thrust don't work and in order to make it work, she needs to be honest with you and you with her.
2007-01-31 07:31:37 · answer #8 · answered by fontes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you already found out that noone was hacking into her account than why are you asking if shes lying?DUH! she seems too wierdo like .id dump her and date your brothers wife..
2007-01-31 07:26:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is jeaolous and covetous and a liar probably and she sounds like a headache and heartache. are you on bp meds? if not, you will be if you remain with her. peace
2007-01-31 07:28:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋