To do with my age I am 23, he is 41. I have been dating him for 1 year. He make me happy any thing I want he will try to get it. But I think it make be a age difference. I am so confuse what should a girl do?
2007-01-31 06:47:27 · 6 answers · asked by angle2005star 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweetie! I have been there, done that! And age truly depends on the individuals.
First things first, you must be able to have good communication with this gentleman. If you cannot have an open and frank conversation with him about this subject after being with him for a year, that is an issue.
Second, a woman's intuitio is a very real and strong thing! Don't fear the worst, but do realize that if you feel very strongly about him not feeling the same way, you have to go with your gut. I know this isn't what you want to hear, but I am truly trying to help you.
Try talking with him casually about it so he doesn't feel like he is being attacked with the "typical-girl questions." You know how guys LOVE that! hehe
I wish you all the best!
2007-01-31 07:02:25 · answer #1 · answered by TheAnswerChicks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps youre wanting to settle down and start a family and so he maintains an emotional distance from you. even at his age he may be self centered and not wanting to do that? does he have kids from a previous marriage? some details would help.
anyway, it may not be so much of an age difference as you both may have a different future in mind and that is something you need to talk to him about. peace
2007-01-31 07:00:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
With that age difference, do you have anything in common? You grew up in different eras. Have you tried dating other guys that are closer to your age? If you really think it will work, You might say something to him about what he thinks about you finding someone your own age. If he loves you, he'll protest.
2007-01-31 07:00:48 · answer #3 · answered by Angel L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont date a grandad love, they get old before u do
2007-01-31 06:57:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a real big age gap ...I dont really know wat u can do ..its up to u ..u wanna love him more or just leave him and live a real life ??
2007-01-31 06:59:32 · answer #5 · answered by ღ♥*~Samantha*~♥ღ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep on loving him.
2007-01-31 06:57:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋