I'm a nice guy, and for some reason, no girl will stay with me longer than two weeks. What am I doing wrong?
2007-01-31 06:46:18 · 20 answers · asked by Justin K 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You know what man. These chicks always walk all over us guys , especially the nice ones. I am exactly like you, altho its not 2 weeks, its a lil longer than that, but then they leave me.
And what i tend to do is, care too much, stay sensitive too much, and respect them too much. I know many girls will give my answer a negative, but when girls say they like a honest nice guy, you have to realise girls never know what they want. They really never do. One girl will say rich guy, one will say great looking body (big muscles), one would love singers! but at the end of the day, its confidence, and just not being dependent.
Create your own world around you. Leave girls out for a while, and create your fun life first. Get hobbies that interest you. When you do get a girl friend, dont be dependent on her, she will love your arua and think of you as "fun".
Usually nice guys like us are too kind and just end up being boring. That doesnt mean boringness runs in our viens, we are men too! We have the same abilities as the next guy! Dont let a women let you think any different.
2007-01-31 07:06:43 · answer #1 · answered by WPReviews 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to give more info than that. I don't know if you are clingy, needy, always talk about your ex, talk about marriage after the second date. If you are any of these women will cut and run. You are wrong nice guys don't finish last. If you look around most ill mannered men don't finish, they may get the girl at first, but end up in divorce or worse. If you truly are just a nice guy, you have just been with the wrong type of girl for you. Really look at what you truly want and then seek it out.
2007-01-31 15:00:56 · answer #2 · answered by mommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is the real answer. As fellows
Your not in control. your not an Alpha males and women find this out fast. What I say is "help yourself" and get the book called
"The Game" By Neil Strauss It got me started on a path that took me from "I just don't get women" to "I rule there world" NO JOKE
I was an AFC like you once and now I'm A PUA If you read the book and are for really about changing your life e-mail me hethatwillalwaysbe@yahoo.com
Make a stand and change your life.
-Swift_move
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2007-01-31 15:11:07 · answer #3 · answered by hethatwillalwaysbe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice guys don't always finish last. You're not doing anything wrong. Has it occurred to you that you just haven't found the RIGHT girl yet?
2007-01-31 14:59:26 · answer #4 · answered by kj 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried asking them, or what did they say before goodbye ,there is a reason look for it ,Nice guys don;t finish last there lucky that they didn,t end up with all the troubles. keep smiling that your best asset don't try so hard. Good Luck
2007-01-31 15:06:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One word: confidence. That is the number one thing I look for in a guy. If a woman senses desperation or a lack of confidence in a guy that is enough to make her leave. The last thing I want is a man who is unsure of himself. That is a definite turnoff. Examine yourself for this and, if you find that to be your problem, get some help to deal with it.
2007-01-31 14:57:46 · answer #6 · answered by sherockstn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You tell me what are you doing wrong? It is not that your nice.
Find a nice girl. Listen to her, dont get to clingy, just have fun, It will happen for you.
2007-01-31 14:57:45 · answer #7 · answered by monica your new bff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This will sound like a cliche but you haven't met the right person. Keep trying. Mature women like nice guys; immature women like bad boys.
2007-01-31 14:57:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just haven't found the nice girl. You are probably just dating the wrong women for you.
2007-01-31 14:56:04 · answer #9 · answered by Nikki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are doing nothing wrong, don't rush it and don't you change Nice guys really finish first
2007-01-31 14:56:00 · answer #10 · answered by Fruitful1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋