help me pls!!!!! after 4 years of not seeing each other, i fall again for him. What will i do? I dnt knw if he feels the same.
2007-01-31 06:32:54 · 22 answers · asked by lady_blou 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you will remember your pain again --all the past events --all his disadvantages --all your bad thoughts about him --why and for what ? keep your life ahead and dont look behind and forget him completly but dont forget the lesson you got from all this relationship?and for now make more movements in your life --go to forgettable honest friends to relatives- theatres --play sport learn something new
2007-01-31 06:53:20 · answer #1 · answered by monaya_3103 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to go out on a limb here, and I don't mean to be disrespectful or mean, honestly. First of all, if it has been four years, chances are the two of you have seen other people. If, for you, that is not the case, well there is your answer. You think that you are falling in love with him again because you have been unable to find anything else meaningful. Having said that, this is a difficult question to answer, how long were you together?, why did you stop seeing each other in the first place?, why has it been four years since you saw each other ? See what I mean. But on the bright side, if you think that he is showing some renewed interest then screw it all and be happy!
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2007-01-31 06:47:54 · answer #2 · answered by SUNBURNTFROG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to have a serious conversation with him. If he doesn't feel the same way, its best to forget all about him and move on, but if he's interested in getting back together, you could give it a try.
Why did you break up? There was probably a reason-don't forget about that. Alot of people go back because even though the person wasn't ideal, he's familiar--that's a terrible reason! Don't sell yourself short! If you broke up because you moved or something like that, then I would think it could possibly work.
2007-01-31 06:38:24 · answer #3 · answered by melouofs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to think about what broke you two up in the first place, if those problems have not been fixed, you'll be breaking up again. Infatuation is not love, in those four years have you been missing him more than anything, or have you been just fine without him? What has he been doing for four years? These are just a few of the questions you should be asking yourself.
2007-01-31 06:39:14 · answer #4 · answered by fisherwoman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he still has feelings for you. If he says he's in love, give him another shot, but you also need to remember what broke you 2 up in the first place and see if he's made any changes.
2007-01-31 06:38:44 · answer #5 · answered by dcbossygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well talk to him and see how he feels, he just might feel the same way bout you, and if he does, try to work things out. Regardless of why yall broke up, he might of change his ways, so i think you should contact him and talk to him and just maybe yall can work things out. Unless he's in a relationship, or married, then you should respect that and you would just have to move on, but other than that..GO FOR IT!
2007-01-31 06:39:51 · answer #6 · answered by ♥12-9-08 a prince was born♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he felt the same he would have no problem letting you know. Move on, after 4 years he's had his chance.
2007-01-31 06:39:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's meant to be it will happen. But after 4 years, you probably aren't in love with him, but in love with what you used to have with him. Time changes people and he (and you) could be entirely different, non-compatible people. So be careful and get to know him... again.
2007-01-31 06:38:01 · answer #8 · answered by mfupipoet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you split in the first place? Chances are, that'll happen again. Remember that.
2007-01-31 06:36:56 · answer #9 · answered by Nova 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to find out if you really love him or if he is just a bad habit. don't be afraid to tell himhow you feel. i knew my best friend (my major crush! he is really hot) for six years and i just told him how i feel and he feels the same way.
2007-01-31 06:41:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋