This guy I know has been asking me every day to hookup... during school... after school... and i'd like too but not like that... he's a really nice guy, and I like him... what should i do? I told him that he'd have to wait till we hang out this thursday... its just a little weird...
2007-01-31 06:27:32 · 21 answers · asked by Chrissy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and im postive hookup means kiss lol
2007-01-31 06:32:19 · update #1
It sounds like there is a lot of pressure there. I wouldn't go anywhere with it because A. he's desperate and B. you already think its weird.
But if you do decide to go with it, just make sure that you tell him your feelings. Make it known that you do like him, but you don't want the "hook up." If he is someone you'd like to date, tell him so. Again, though, make him understand that you don't want to do that right now. If he's cool with it and really is a "nice guy," go out and have a good time.
But, if you tell him your thoughts and he either dismisses them right away or agrees but is right back to asking you for it the next day, he doesn't respect you and he doesn't deserve you.
Don't cave in. Stand for yourself and do what you want. Don't do what he wants if it makes you feel uncomfortable and out-of-place. Be careful too hun!!
2007-01-31 06:40:27 · answer #1 · answered by qpxandrad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 09:08:26 · answer #2 · answered by hudrick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with him on Thursday and then make him wait some more. He'll respect you for it in the long run.
2007-01-31 06:31:21 · answer #3 · answered by samiam246 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have sex with him. He's just got to wait till the relationship is stable. Most guys only want the sex part and you will never see him again.
2007-01-31 06:40:35 · answer #4 · answered by Inquirer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you want to go out with him but you are not interested in the physical aspect right now. Set the boundaries and if he does not respect them-dump him
2007-01-31 06:34:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come straight out and tell him you like him, but that you are going to have to take things a little bit slow. You want to go at your pace and not his, and if he's cool with that then okay, if not, he can take the highway.
2007-01-31 06:32:26 · answer #6 · answered by Scotty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think that he is just wanting to hook up for sex, and that isn't what you want, tell him. If that isn't all he wants, then he will still want to go out. If it is all he wants,then well, he won't
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2007-01-31 06:35:55 · answer #7 · answered by SUNBURNTFROG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so what if he's a nice guy. he may be hiding behind that just to fool you!!!! tell him your not interested and your not that type of girl. he's probably doing that with other girls that you don't know. Don't fall for it!!!!
2007-01-31 06:33:39 · answer #8 · answered by truth hurts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmph another common sense question simply tell him to leave you alone
2007-01-31 06:35:09 · answer #9 · answered by spiritualism0 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn its just a kiss. relax! you act like he said he wanted to have sex with you. go out with him, and if you like him, you will know what to do from there
2007-01-31 06:31:52 · answer #10 · answered by ♥12-9-08 a prince was born♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋