Women: talk to me about hints and signs us guys are missing... have a few scenarios inside.....?

Question

another question I read here about mixed signals inspired this:

first scenario: you're in a public place, could be working in a retail shop, restaurant or walking the mall/street whatever you see a guy you're interested in, what are you doing to get his attention, is there signs or hints a guy should be watching for? Are you in most cases just noticing and moving on? How does a guy tell the difference between flirtation being genuine in say a retail environment versus it being customer service... I ask cause I know my friends like to think every bar waitress is hitting on them.

scenario 2: you're at an event of some sort, casual or otherwise and you're talking to people and its more social then it is random like in the above situation. You like someone you're talking to, what gives away your interest in this situation, and is it different than in the above situation?

Seems us guys dont catch on to womens subtleties so it'd be nice if you girls could shed the light a bit

Answer 1

I'd say in the majority of situations where you think a saleswoman or waitress is flirting with you, she's not. She's trying to make a sale or get a big tip. Think: strippers. If she asks for your number or to see you again - then that's a different story. Men always think women are hitting on them for some reason. Women are usually just being polite.

If you're at an event and a woman keeps looking at you and makes it a point to come talk to you or something like that - then she's interested. Beyond that, you should return the flirtation and see where it goes. When in doubt, just go for it, but get used to rejection!

Answer 2

..trust me..every bar waitress is looking for the "money"..(tip)..lol..

..if i see you passing by....and i like you...i will look at you longer than expected and turn around to look at you again!.......(that is in any scenerio/any place).....that is your invitation..."come get me"...