My friend has an admirer, and he is desperately trying to make her like him. She wants him to leave her alone (they are 14). He doesn't know she knows. What should she do apart from being mean?
2007-01-31 06:11:07 · 14 answers · asked by Andrew B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
P.S she actually wants my help here.
2007-01-31 06:21:40 · update #1
PPS i don't know the guy personally and he is undeterred by her "boyfriend" that really doesn't exist.
2007-01-31 06:23:04 · update #2
Talk to him and tell him the truth
2007-01-31 06:17:01 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would depend on how he is with her. When you say he won't leave her alone it's hard to know how serious it is. If it appears like he is almost stalking her I would suggest telling some adults so this boy can hopefully get some counselling.
2007-01-31 06:18:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should get to know him. tell him she doesnt want a bf at that age. Or she could just tell him the brutal truth........ its flattering that he likes her but she doesnt feel the same way.... she wants to be friends but not anything more. He's only 14 he'll grow out of it or get over her.
Or she could get to know him and see if she might maybe like him in the future
2007-01-31 06:18:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nothing has ever been gained by anyone from meddling in things like this. Leave the whole thing alone. It's not your problem
2007-01-31 06:20:31 · answer #4 · answered by ian_eadgbe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should directly tell him that she does not have the same feelings for him as he does for her. She shouldn't make it sound like she is putting him down, but more like she is trying to explain something to him.
2007-01-31 06:19:21 · answer #5 · answered by Nikki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of your pal shouldn't forget approximately that female through fact as lots he will forget approximately she will proceed to maintain on with him, merely ask him to spend time together with her and talk over together with her as a chum enable her comprehend what's the case, i'm beneficial she will comprehend her mistake and he would be in a comfortable challenge.
2016-10-16 09:07:55 · answer #6 · answered by hudrick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just have her tell him that she is not interested in him. she is not being maen by telling him this. she is just being honest. it would be mean for her to not do anything and just let him go on thinking that she likes him. at least by doing the above, she would be letting him off easy. hope this helps. good luck.
2007-01-31 06:18:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him str8 up to his face that she don't like him and she want him to leave her alone and don't hold back if he doesn't kno she doesn't like him then he won't leave her alone so tell her to let him know to his face asap
2007-01-31 06:19:33 · answer #8 · answered by Baby Gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him that she knows and ask him to cool down on her some i don't think that if she put in into her own words then she should be fine and if he doesn't back off some then you need to worry
2007-01-31 06:22:48 · answer #9 · answered by sapphire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Richard
2007-01-31 06:19:06 · answer #10 · answered by spiritualism0 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋