ok yesterday i posted this question, http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AqIfgdT159m.a4L8F8ZkoMfsy6IX?qid=20070130152138AAlnXVx . I want to hear from someone with experience if these types of things are normal with girls with anorexia. She broke it off with me out of the blue after 5 great years. We had just gotten back from a trip together and she said she hated it because she had to act like she was hungry all the time. is this fairly common? do things usually get back to normal?
2007-01-31 06:08:12 · 12 answers · asked by runninback2822 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok seriously some of you guys can go **** yourself. thank you very much for the people who actually cared and tried to answer my problem seriously. i know it may sound like some messed up soap opera, but this is my life *** holes
2007-01-31 06:15:48 · update #1
yes i know she is anorexic, she thought she was , and she was just diagnosed
2007-01-31 07:05:07 · update #2
i know how she must feel...i used to be one of those anerexic girlfriends. its hard to have a bf, and have to hide the fact there is trouble when it comes to eating. its hard to have the pressure to eat when the bf does. she probably broke up with you because when your anerexic, you are brainwashed. your weight is ALWAYS on your mind. its hard to deal with anything else. ya things get back to normal, that thats something she has to choose. all you can do is be there for support. and try to do activities that don't involve eating, and if they do, make sure its a setting where she can have the choices of what to eat. good luck...its hard...but worth the wait
2007-01-31 06:15:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know for sure she is anorexic? maybe she has a really small stomach and never gets the hngry feeling? is she thin or is she well formed and wants to get thin?
I ask this because i'm 5'4 and weigh 103 lbs and I know im not anorexic because i wish i weighed a bit more but my stomach is so small that i can go almost a whole day without eating and wont feel hungry until i feel faint or until my husband reminds me that i have not eaten. we get into fights all the time because of my lack of hunger. so make sure that you dont just think she is anorexic but that she really is, if you know for sure that she is...
than talk to her, tell her you love her and are concerned for her well-being and that it is important for relationship to have communication my best bet is that no-one here on this sight is educated enough to give you the answer you need so speak to a proffesional. If your girl continues to pull away from you and does not accept your help then you should put her in prayer NOTHING is imposible for God.
2007-01-31 06:24:21 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that it all depends on the amount that the girlfriend is willing to put foward because one way relationships never work i promise but if you show her enough love then you will get through it and i do feel for you and if you need to talk some more email me @octashialuvsu@yahoo.com
2007-01-31 06:12:35 · answer #3 · answered by octashiathamoneymaker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she really needs to get medical help and some therapy. anorexia is never good. if she has gottent to the point where she looks sick, contact her parents an set up an "intervention"
2007-01-31 06:13:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of you may shun the ppl say attitude and attain out to her, enable her be conscious of how lots she means to you, carry her hand, look her in the eyes and pour your heart to her. tell her you difficulty approximately her and you elect to assist in making issues super or better for the two considered one of you. tell her you will could artwork together in this(its not her challenge is our challenge) and gently advance the challenge. If she gets mad, be high-quality and teach her the loving ingredient of you she hasn't seen in the past, help her help herself, do not do it for her, enable her do it. medical care would be suitable for her and a dietitian could additionally help convey her back, yet in the past all of this shun ppl suggested attitude and be there for her, help her, safeguard her dignity and straightened her with the aid of this. sturdy success.
2016-10-16 09:07:42 · answer #5 · answered by hudrick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her she looks fat that will put her back on track! and she wont wanna act hungry in front of you anymore. offer her the toliet for dessert or some mouthwash!
2007-01-31 06:13:40 · answer #6 · answered by wallyworld96 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Naw it don't get back to normal usually babe sometimes thats just how they are
2007-01-31 06:12:11 · answer #7 · answered by Baby Gurl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why don't you just give her Marijuana?
I bet within 15 minutes she'll beat your @$$ for quarter pounder with cheese!
2007-01-31 06:13:34 · answer #8 · answered by Karen 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
dpends on how u treat her after she breaks up with you
2007-01-31 06:13:31 · answer #9 · answered by Dany 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She is tooo worried about her looks. I f she is pretty stay with her. If not dump her
2007-01-31 06:12:25 · answer #10 · answered by Tori 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋