I've been seeing my girlfriend for about 8 months and the sparkle is starting to fizzle out. How can I put the romance back into our relationship and brighten things up again. I've never been a true romancer so any tips would be most appreciated.
2007-01-31 05:59:43 · 14 answers · asked by KEVIN S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
candles, music, a moonlit walk, a big log fire...all the other cheesey things.
2007-01-31 06:03:58 · answer #1 · answered by Unhinged.... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How sweet are you?!?! Cheesy always wins a girl's heart over. Make some sandwiches, slice up some fruit, take some drinks and go on a picnic at the playground and swing and slide and do monkey bars and the merry go round, or take her to the duck pond with a loaf of bread and feed the ducks, bake a cake and tell her it's to celebrate her then order in some pizza and have a picnic in the living room floor on a blanket with candles. Remember when trying to romance a girl~make it all about her! If there is something super special that she loves for you to do, do it, like brushing her hair, washing or even just rubbing her back, etc. Take a long hot bubble bath with her, put flower petals in the water with some great smelling bath salts, put candles all around the tub and the bathroom, and take some fruit in the tub and have a picnic in the tub ( no really, just fruit and some nice champaign or wine). Take her for a nice country drive, pull off on the side of the road and pick her some flowers just because, then go to the river bank, sit and just look at the sky and talk about what shapes you see in the clouds, hold each other and gaze into one another's eye's~ you know, if did some of these things or all of them~whenever she goes to do one of them on her own (or heaven forbid with someone else) all she will think about is what an amazing time she had that night with you! So, I hope these ideas help you a little~ I know they aren't big and expensive and all, but like I said, cheesy always wins a girl over (cheesy makes us think "this is so sweet, but I see why I'm in charge of all of the big decisions around here") LOL. Oh yeah~ I forgot to mention to take her out in the rain!! Rain is so much fun in the spring and summer!! Go out in the rain and just run, hold hands and run and play, splash in the puddles, kiss under a rain spout, rub each other's faces and just go crazy!! Oh, I wish it were raining right now~ I'd take my husband out!!
2016-05-23 23:15:42 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Poetry (not too long, you dont' want it to be painful to read 6 lines max).
Catch a train to a sweet little town in the countryside: make her wear a blindfold all the way from the house.
Surprise her with a picnic on your livingroom floor with flowers, champagne, chocolate and dim lights.
For fun go to a bar let her to go in first, then come in 5 mins later pretend you don't know each other and pick her up in the naughtiest way ever.
2007-01-31 06:14:08 · answer #3 · answered by Lucy Lake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what SHE likes!! I'm not into candy & flowers but some women are . . . figure out what makes her tick and do it for her. Perhaps having dinner ready when she got home (you don't have to make it - even take-out from somewhere she likes would be good). Or perhaps draw her a bath and have a bathrobe and drink waiting for her when she gets home. If she normally gets home first get out early . . .
2007-01-31 06:11:41 · answer #4 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not some grand one-off gesture you need - just make sure that every little thing she does for you, you tell her 'thank you'/'I appreciate you doing that for me', etc. Manners maketh the man, 'tis true, but by telling her how much you appreciate her, she'll want to do more, hence so will you, and it will all come naturally and keep it alive.
2007-01-31 06:26:09 · answer #5 · answered by Just_wondering 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she work, Maybe buy her alot of red roses, and a teddy bear, and bring it to her work, or maybe surpriser, and take her to a very fancy resterunt, or maybe make a dinner, with candles, romance music, and rose petals all around the house, with hersy kisses.
2007-02-03 12:46:42 · answer #6 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The next time you see her, immediately take her in you arms and kiss her passionately. It doesn't matter where you are. Just hold that kiss until you feel her melt. Gaze into her eyes and tell her how much you love her. Hold her hand as you walk, kissing it now and then. Treat her as if she holds your very life in the palm of her hand. If she's masculine in any way, she won't like this. But if she's feminine, she'll love it. I do.
2007-01-31 06:13:59 · answer #7 · answered by Angel L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently , you have failed at you're task of being her man. My guess is you simply didn't add (up) ,and thus is making her bored with you. If you wanna truly make her yours and keep the so called sparkle is by hit tin that *** like it owes you money. Sounds pretty harsh huh? However whats more harsh , her leaving your silly *** or tearing her *** up? You make the choice.
2007-01-31 06:58:56 · answer #8 · answered by chad s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take her away for the weekend
put at least one night a week aside for each other
make a candle lite dinner
fresh flowers once a week
but most of all make her feel special
2007-01-31 06:12:38 · answer #9 · answered by nat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get yourself a gimp suit,some whips and chains then she can whip your gimmpy butt..LOL. Seriously, just take her for a meal or on a dirty weekend. Spoil her but make it a last minute surprise. But don't forget to take the bondage gear.
2007-01-31 08:50:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Candle lit dinner, flowers
2007-01-31 06:04:22 · answer #11 · answered by richard_beckham2001 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋