Hello, I'm a shy guy, and i know how to deal wiht it a lilttle bit now, but when it comes to girls i just freeze, or give a false expression like for example when i girls want to talk to me i just respond right back at whatever she said and then turn around and keep doing my bussiness, or when sometimes they touch me or tickle me i just give a non-interested expression, which i dont mean, this is becoming frustating and i dont know how to end it...pls help : (
2007-01-31 05:57:34 · 15 answers · asked by Mark-0 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
heh ...forgot to say, im 17
2007-01-31 06:04:08 · update #1
get naked
2007-01-31 06:00:29 · answer #1 · answered by *Hot.s.lut. 4 U to POUND ON 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
The only thing i can tell you to do is to practice. Put yourself in situations where you HAVE to be around girls and it should get easier to talk to them. Really try hard to be yourself and show your true feelings. You don't want to wear your heart on your sleeve so to speak, but if you find a girl attractive and want to talk to her more, make eye contact. Compliment her. Sincerely...tell her she had beautiful hair or eyes or that you love her smile. We ladies LOVE that. It will not be easy, but it will get easier as time goes on. Best wishes!
PS Rejection happens. Don't let a few icky mean girls make you not want to talk to the rest of the population. If one of them says mean things to you, move on. You deserve better than that.
2007-01-31 14:06:41 · answer #2 · answered by fair blue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is really no advice that is going to work until you are ready to start making conversations with other people. Being shy is just who you are, it is your personality.......but, just so you know, shy guys can be very sexy because there is something mysterious about them. The only advice I can give is to be yourself and when the right girl comes along, she will love your shy ways along with the rest of you......good luck sweetie
2007-01-31 14:05:30 · answer #3 · answered by dixiegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP turning around and continue with bussiness try too continue the converastion for once like what you doing this weekend and see whathappens from there.Converastion is what kills the shyness and walking away part.
2007-01-31 14:03:50 · answer #4 · answered by tino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't listen to them...just be yourself! start by talking to girls as if they are your guy friends. go out, have fun, take them bowling or something to break the ice, then just have a conversation. this will get them interested in you and you will feel more comfortable around them.
2007-01-31 14:03:48 · answer #5 · answered by Andrew G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well
if your freezing in front of girls if you have any friends just talk to them like there a guy youll get use to talking to girls and it will be like your talking to a guy just dont talk about stupid or dumb things like ice cream or pie . thats realy stupid . lol one i did that to a guy he was like um ok ?lol sorry back to the topic.and well that should fix your problem and well if your shy try to talk to more ppl.smiel more like get in more clubs and meet ppl in clubs and like go to more partys.well i hope my idvise worked itell me how it works out!!=D
2007-02-01 20:13:03 · answer #6 · answered by hottie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Eat Fish.
2007-01-31 14:03:56 · answer #7 · answered by Optimistic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pretend there a chick friend u havent seen in a long time
2007-01-31 14:01:53 · answer #8 · answered by CANDY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just chill and dont talk to them as potential girlfriends first...get to know them then go for it...it works with me and guys
2007-01-31 14:01:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should just try to express your feelings with someone who you'll know will help (a female relative).
2007-01-31 14:01:34 · answer #10 · answered by melikey2009 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wear a coat
2007-01-31 14:01:55 · answer #11 · answered by newheartin03 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋