Me and my boyfriend have been on and off for 6 going n 7 months one of the main 2 reason why we breakup and then get back together is because of 1 he dont trust me and 2 he is all ways jelious of someone ease and 3 he alwaysthrows his past relationships in my face when he gets mad at me and he wonts me to do everything he says and will not let me go anywhere because he feels that if i am at home then he know i am safe at home he dose not like me around my family expecially my brothers and cousin because he feels that they like me more then just family and pluse he thinks that the world revolves him and it dose not
2007-01-31 05:49:07 · 11 answers · asked by myeashia n 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop breaking up and getting back together.
He's a jerk, you're allowing him to treat you like crap. Stop it.
2007-01-31 05:52:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl , the first thing you need to do is have a heart to heart talk with him. Have you gave him a reason to not trust you? If not do you trust him? Do you think that he is cheating on you? Most cases, when a man keep accusing you that you are cheating and you never gave him a reason. then he is the one who. I'm not saying he is, because some man are just a holes. Just sit and talk and be honest. Don't hide nothing. Explain to him how he makes you feel. Tell him how you feel. You don't need to keep breaking up and getting back together, that's not healthy for you and him. Nothing good can come out of that, just pain. Makes sure you pay attention to your needs, because that's who is always their, your self.
2007-01-31 06:01:10 · answer #2 · answered by sweetmocha07031984 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you didn't say how old you are but it sounds like your boyfriend is very immature. 1. all relationships are based on trust, if he does not trust you, it is all but over. 2. if he is the jealous type, he will not change and will always be suspicous of you. 3. throwing past relationships in your face is a sign of immaturity and as far as your family goes.... they come first and he needs to realize this. It sounds as he is controlling and you don't, I REPEAT DON'T need that. Let him go and find someone that is worthy of you and respects you and your relationship with your family.
2007-01-31 05:54:46 · answer #3 · answered by happi2bwu2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, he has each and every good to be annoyed! a million. Your son is 4 YEARS previous, no longer 4 months previous! Get him off the breast! something tells me he remains in diapers too! 2. that's in HER homestead and he or she's sitting at HER table, and you only plop down and raise your boobs to nurse your infant! "If he grew to become right into a physically powerful father he could have caught up for me and spanked that little b*tch good then and there for being so disrespectful". so which you are the epitome of modesty? My, i'm so humbled. and you wanna communicate approximately disrespect? You stated as her a "finished snotty, spoiled b*tch"!
2016-11-23 17:48:16 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of that relationship asap. He'll only get worse. And how sick is he to think your own brothers like you more than just a sister, is he that dimented?, and if he keeps throwing his past relationship in your face then tell him to go back to her. My ex was the same way, thought I was cheating on him all the time, he didn't want my brother in the house when he wasn't there because he thought he was hitting on me...how sick is that. He got to the point that he was so possesive and jealous he started beating me, and your situation sounds like how mine started. Get out now before you get hurt.
2007-01-31 06:03:38 · answer #5 · answered by CLM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to try acting as an adult and if he can't handle his emotions and insecurities than you would be better off w/out him. I wouold not want to get any more involved with someone that is controling and mad or not he should respect you and your relationship w/him. Not a good situation!!!
2007-01-31 05:56:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like my x. he throws past things in your face to shut you up. to make himself seem like he's right. you may notice that he twists things around and always sounds right. well it's all a form of control. i had the same problem. 10 YEARS!!! later i broke up with him. i finally did meet someone else. but the worst part of it all was i didn't know how to use a computer. i never got to have a beeper(pager) when they came out. and i didn't know how to work a cell phone. all those things he said would ruin our relationship. he never trusted me. he did the same to his girlfriend before me. my husband now showed me how to use all of the things my x said i wasn't to have. when i left my x it killed him. I was in control the whole time and didn't know it. i never saw him beg and cry like that before. but it was too late. and please remember that type of person will NEVER change!!!no matter how many chances you give. please get out asap!! you'll be so happy after you heal from all that.don't waste any more months of you life.
2007-01-31 06:03:40 · answer #7 · answered by Crystal K. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing for you to do is just end it with him and find someone else. He obviously has trust issues and with all the problems it doesn't seem worth it. Find someone else.
2007-01-31 06:02:52 · answer #8 · answered by Tim VP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop seen him already
jealous of your family...don't trust you...boss you around...
find some one that besides from saying that he loves you, behave like he loves you
2007-01-31 06:00:09 · answer #9 · answered by gattsoul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cancel his ticket
2007-01-31 05:53:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋