Whether they are straight or gay, do you tell them or just let the friendship develope into whatever it is going to be?
2007-01-31 05:45:02 · 11 answers · asked by beth 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm waiting for the answer :)
2007-01-31 05:48:41 · answer #1 · answered by Pearl_beach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You find out if they are gay or straight. If they are straight, you do not dare tell them. You run the high risk of making them very uncomfortable and losing the friendship completely. Plus, if they are straight, there's no chance they will want to be with you sexually, so what is the point? Just making them uncomfortable.
If they are gay, tell them straight out. Don't play games.
2007-01-31 13:50:46 · answer #2 · answered by jessamess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It really matters whether they're straight or gay, since the former is one you would not want to tell, while the latter is certainly one you would tell -- if you want to go beyond a crush, that is.
2007-01-31 13:54:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would just let a friendship develop and see where it takes you and the other person...
2007-01-31 13:48:58 · answer #4 · answered by Bad Mood 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u think she is straight and will freak out u might wanna forget if u wanna keep ur friendship
if shes straight and u think she will try to understand tell her
if shes lesbian or bisexual just tell her be honest and straight forward
GOOD LUCK
2007-01-31 13:52:44 · answer #5 · answered by ashl2e 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends. If you have ALOT of feelings for this person then you should let them know. but if it's just a tiny crush then just let it take its own route.
2007-01-31 13:48:55 · answer #6 · answered by lala 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it definitly depends on wheather there gay are straight ,, if there straight than i know from personal experience its better to keep it to yourself , but if there gay or bi then tell them ,,,,,,, nothing would hurt then
2007-01-31 13:49:32 · answer #7 · answered by t_ibrahim 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No I haven't and you'd better be careful how you tell him if you
do. He might realize you're not the one to be with anymore.
Read the Bible, God created Adam and Eve not Adam and Steve!
2007-01-31 13:51:54 · answer #8 · answered by Williamstown 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First i would get yourself checked to see why you have this problem and find a way to treat it. I would not involve anyone else ever...
2007-01-31 13:51:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you rent the movie brokeback mountian and open a bottle of red wine. Serve cheeses and bread and see how it plays out!
2007-01-31 13:52:12 · answer #10 · answered by Arthur Richards of Kent 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋