See this is what happened...yesterday i was walkin home from school...when this guy came up in a car and started talking to me..i was talkin to him about my boyfriend...telling him i was happy wit my man...then my boyfriend walks up and thinks i'm giving the guy my phone number...! he then broke up with me..and he won't talk to me...and when i got home last night i found out i was pregnant..what should i do???
2007-01-31 05:41:45 · 9 answers · asked by redfrontstar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
See this is what happened...yesterday i was walkin home from school...when this guy came up in a car and started talking to me..i was talkin to him about my boyfriend...telling him i was happy wit my man...then my boyfriend walks up and thinks i'm giving the guy my phone number...! he then broke up with me..and he won't talk to me...and when i got home last night i found out i was pregnant..what should i do??? (and to that asshole who saying i need parents to make my decision...i don't have any....and my boyfriend is 21 and i'm 18...so please come up with a different response...thank you)
2007-01-31 07:12:31 · update #1
sounds like you have a controlling boyfriend..that sucks..i am sure he will take you back..i bet it wasn't the first time he has done this..am i right? Good Luck
2007-01-31 05:46:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like feel alone and abandoned. You have been falsely accused and rejected.
Now that you are pregnant, your boyfriend issue isn't as important as what you are going to do about the pregnancy. You need to take care of yourself and he has shown that under the best of circumstances he is unavailable for you. It is healthiest to avoid using the pregnancy to guilt or control your boyfriend into doing anything for you, and it is fine to let him know that he has impregnated you. You will need resources, information and support for yourself right now and in the future whatever decision you make regarding your pregnancy.
The immaturity of your boyfriend shows that expectations you have of him will most likely be unfulfilled. You can take care of yourself no matter what he does or doesn't do. Ask for help, focus on yourself and avoid arguments, defending yourself or any angry interactions with anyone. Be proactive and take care of the situation at hand. The most important priority right now is you and your pregnancy, not a jealous boyfriend that accuses you of being unfaithful.
Kind regards
2007-01-31 14:00:07 · answer #2 · answered by teach_empathy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is quite a delimma you are in. You're boyfriend should trust you enough to know that you weren't giving the guy your number. I think he over-reacted. Unless you have done something in the past to make him think that you were unfaithful. The only think you can do is explain to your boyfriend that you care about him and that you arent interested in anyone else. Sometimes its best to let things cool down first, because when people are upset they won't listen.
2007-01-31 13:46:40 · answer #3 · answered by Lauren M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell him your pregnant yet, just tell him you want to talk things out like adults. If you tell him your pregnant and he doesn't care cause if he thinks your cheating then he will think it's not his. you should tell him your pregnant when yah two are there alone together. All of that should be done if you really love him and he loves you too or not just look for somebody else you deserve better anyways.
2007-01-31 13:51:13 · answer #4 · answered by Vencio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to find a way to explain what really happened and if u can try gettin that guy u were talkin 2 so he can explain it to him as well....whatever u do find a way to tell ur boyfriend that u r pregnant or else if ur planning on keeping the baby ur going to be raising it all by urself....now i no u dont want to do dat rite?
2007-01-31 13:47:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It appears you were misjudged in regard to the chat with another man. You do need to explain honestly what happened and also, tell him immediately that you are pregnant. Good luck and be a good Mother to this child irregardless of what he chooses to do. Good luck and God Bless YOU.
2007-01-31 13:47:32 · answer #6 · answered by Jan C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May I ask how old are you two. The way you asked, and the way you described what your little boyfriend did, it sounds you two are little teens in trouble cause you are now pregnant.
Go to your parents and let them take an adult decision now.
2007-01-31 13:51:52 · answer #7 · answered by Dan D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Omg! you should tell him what happened and that you need him right now (if your choosing to have the baby) but dont tell him your pregnent unless he hooks back up with you and if he doesn't then you should tell him you pregnent maybe he'll reconsider.
2007-01-31 14:05:08 · answer #8 · answered by UndeadNitemare 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him and send him a txt write him a letter let him know what's happening and tell him your pregnant
2007-01-31 13:45:16 · answer #9 · answered by IisIam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋