First of all this is not directed towars every single female so don't say I generalize. Just answer if you feel you can relate.
So why is it that men in relationships or marriages are not off limits for you anymore? Why do you enable men to cheat on their girlfriends/your fellow sisters? I posted a question earlier for men (check if you like) & they answered that females make it too easy now days for them to cheat. So if you say you like casual sex why don't opt out for men that are not tied up already? Wouldnt that show some respect on your behalf not only for yourself but for the unknowing female that is at home loving this dude? I am curious I have been on both ends & I just refuse to believe that true love & comitment is non exsistant. When you are sleeping with a man that is cheating you should remeber that you could be cheated on one day just like that & it would hurt you. Why can't we make an effort collectivly & stick together as women? Stop helping cheaters cheat!
2007-01-31 05:23:27 · 26 answers · asked by $D*Da*Spoild*1$ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you go girl!!i agree with you 100%!girls who cheat are letting us down badly
2007-01-31 05:28:04 · answer #1 · answered by lil Miss Irish 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have noticed the same thing as you for years - and I am sure that I am a lot older than you. I really believe that some woman are bit__es and will do anything they can to get over on someone. Woman can be so jealous of each other. Not ALL woman are like that - but those of you who would chase a married man need to step back and think - what if it was your man???? How would you feel - you are making it easier for them to cheat. If you say no - a man can't cheat. I know that sometimes the guys do lie to you but after you find out he is with someone else you should send him packing so you don't destroy someone else's life. He won't leave his wife most of the time for you and if he does you will find yourself never trusting him because of what he did with you. So - you are right - we should just stick together and stop them in their tracks!!!
2007-01-31 06:07:31 · answer #2 · answered by Babycat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sooooo in support of what you are saying. However, the one thing that I have come to realize, even though I don't want to admit it, the women aren't only the problem. If the man wasn't paying attention, the woman could get no where with them. So we need to ask the men, why do you get involved with another woman when you have an innocent woman waiting for you at home? If you don't love her anymore, get out of the relationship. Women don't make it easy for a man to cheat, the man wants to cheat. He wants to have his cake and eat it too. When this kind of thing happens with a relationship, the relationship is already going downhill. Everyone is looking for a way out.
2007-01-31 05:36:11 · answer #3 · answered by Sherilynn B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question is very interesting. If women would be lady like and stop being trashy, then men would more likely be put in their place. Too few people care about the hurt that is caused by cheating. Of course this is true for both male and female. If people took their wedding vows seriously, then this problem wouldn't happen. A true lady doesn't cheat and/or lead a guy on and a true gentleman wouldn't either.
2007-01-31 05:36:40 · answer #4 · answered by Jan C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really like your question! And I totally agree, we women should stick together... But how often do you hear women put other women down? And we are the weaker sex for those desperate men who say, oh my wife is wonderful, but not fullfilling in bed! It's then a challenge for the "other" woman to be the "more"
to a taken man. Personally, I cannot be with a taken man. I won't! I deserve better! Sadly, I will wait probably a very long time to find a good single guy who isn't a player or out to find a sugar mama!
2007-01-31 05:31:12 · answer #5 · answered by T. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK I'm a guy and guys who say women make it to easy are full of it. Men cheat because we're selfish the same for women who cheat. How is a woman to know a man is taken? Sorry, it isn't tatooed on our foreheads. People cheat because they only care about their wants and desires without putting anyone else ahead of themselves. When a person cheats don't blame the partner, blame the cheater.
2007-01-31 06:08:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand your frustration - I used to feel the same way, that I'd never cheat on my boyfriend, fiance, or spouse, and I'd never cheat with someone who was committed, engaged, or married. That was before I'd been through stuff. At the moment, I have a huge thing for a guy who's w/ another girl, who has a baby with her, blah, blah, blah. They're not married, but still...Anyway, I don't think I'd make the first move (I don't know really), but I can't say I wouldn't reject his advances. As I've grown up and matured, I've come to know life isn't black and white. You may have the best intentions in the world, but there will always be something to come up in your life that will test your morals. I try to follow my heart and let the powers at be guide me. Just know, I don't chase married/committed men, but if I fall for a guy who is, I'm really sorry - it's not always easy to avoid. Yeah, I used to think, you should be able to control your emotions, don't get close to them, avoid them like the plague, and I have, but yet my feelings remain. Whatever will be, will be, I guess...
2007-01-31 05:31:56 · answer #7 · answered by calebskitten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You go, girl! Thanks for saying what a lot of us are thinking. Some of us are in healthy, wonderful marriages where cheating isn't ever even going to be thought of (and no, we don't delude ourselves, we are just mature, thoughtful and have pledged fidelity).
I frankly can't believe that with all the STDs, HIV/AIDS out there that all this cheating is going on - putting themselves at risk, and their spouses/partners. It really is sick. And, unfortunately, often the "other woman" later becomes the one cheated upon - not realizing I suppose that past behaviour is the best predictor of future behaviour of that man.
People, both men and women, have to think and be mature before they pop them buttons and zoom those zippers.
2007-01-31 05:39:11 · answer #8 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All Ladies are Beautiful, and Gorgeous..God created such exotic beauties something that makes them gorgeous: being themself, original, unique, smart, there smile, class, fun, mature, caring, a great heart, a great mind, talents, there hair..
2016-05-23 23:08:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
iv had this happen to me soo many times i cant count anymore... i´v never once in my life cheated on anyone but the man that iv been with for 5 years did it alot and every time i found out i´d just sit in my room and cry for days it felt like **** why did he think he needed to go out and pick up other woman when i was out at work or at home cleaning our house doing his laundry cooking his meals i couldnt understand it untill the last time... he came home and he looked soo guilty i couldnt belive it.. i just rolled my eyes and walked away he turned to me and said baby everyother time u said i cheated i never slept with them when it got to that point all i could think about was u so i just got up and left and came home but today i did a really bad thing im sorry i couldnt help my self i just walked out came back the next morning and got all my stuff the look on his face when i was packing up was heart breaking he was in tears (if u were to kno this man hes not like this i had been with him for 2 years at that time and never seen a tear come out of that mans eyes) i broke down and gave him one more chance it was probly the best thing i could have done.. from then to now hes never been with another woman ... how do i kno ... he brought me to every womans house parked 3 blocks away and let me go in and talk to them.. only 1 he slept with ... he didnt lie and i know everyone of them better then he knew 1/2 of them he had no idea i knew
so to end this we are now engaged and have a baby on the way... i couldnt be more happy i love this man to death all the woman that he was with had a black eye and i have never talked to them again b*****
to all u woman that sleep with other womans men... just wait girls one day when u least expect it... its going to happen to u... bite u square on the behind... and i hope it hurts.
P.S. true love and commitment IS EXSISTANT!!!!!!!!
2007-01-31 05:51:07 · answer #10 · answered by Day Dreamer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never been involved with a married man (other than my ex hubby and he was married to me). I refuse to get involved with any man that has a gf or spouse. My ex cheated on me - I'd never do that to anyone else since I know what it's like to be the innocent one.
2007-01-31 05:28:01 · answer #11 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋