One of the most popular guys around when i lived asked me out. The problem is he was a HUGE player. He is acting different now with me and even his friends agree, but idk if i should trust him. I have been in a lot of bad relationships so if you have any advice i'd love to hear it.
2007-01-31 05:17:11 · 28 answers · asked by MissPeteWentz<3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Judging someone solely on past actions is no way to go about things. I'm sure you have things in your past you aren't so proud of, and it wouldn't feel good to have people judge you based on those past indiscretions.
Go on a date with him. I wouldn't, however, recommend sleeping with him any time soon. If you have qualms with his past, you need to address those before you can start any kind of real intimacy. Trust is a vital aspect to any balanced and harmonious relationship. The sooner you believe his "player" days are over, the sooner you can allow yourself to have real feelings.
2007-01-31 05:26:15 · answer #1 · answered by Unpopular Opinion 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
first, you even admit that he is a HUGE player so why waste your time bothering with him. you already know hes a player so dont go anywhere near him the reason hes acting different is because he probably knows that youre not like those other easy girls so he has to play a different game just to get you so tahts teh reasoning behind why hes acting different or maybe im wrong because i do believe people can change i wotn say a player is always a player but its goign to be hard and its not a likely chance he changed so for ur best bet, dont go out with him, if he changed and is true then he will wait.. remain single for a while because if its meant to be, then its meant tobe but dont risk your heart when its not worth it
2007-01-31 05:26:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you have an odd feeling then obviously there is a reason. Always follow your gut feeling. Players do change and they are people also. However, if you like him you need to tell him you will not stand for him little games. Stand up for yourself and if he starts to mess around get rid of him. You are young and he is not going to be the man you marry so just go out and have fun but be smart.
2007-01-31 05:35:05 · answer #3 · answered by Tim VP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't trust his friends, they are his friends and they're not gonna sell him out to a chick he wants to get with.
About dating him, if you want to at least you're going into it with the knowledge of what he's like so you shouldn't be surprised. With a player you know the relationships not gonna last a long time so if you're in it for a good time then enjoy it if you want something serious then let it go
2007-01-31 05:26:09 · answer #4 · answered by menagainstamazoniammasterhood 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Eventually "players" realize that they need more out of life than what they can coerse from someone else. It doesn't matter though, because the stakes are too high when you play with your heart. Don't give your heart away until your trust in him is firmly established. If I were you I'd forget the playa', there's too many nice guys out there.
2007-01-31 05:36:25 · answer #5 · answered by Wes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Players play you... never forget that. If you are up for the game, them by all means get your jersy on girl! If you think he is being different because you are special, well you are - for now! They love the chase, love the attention, and love to find it again when the new wears off...
2007-01-31 05:23:24 · answer #6 · answered by T. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say - but even if a player gets a gf it does not seem to last for all that long. They eventually miss dating more than one gal and start to cheat on the gf. I'd be VERY careful!!
2007-01-31 05:21:50 · answer #7 · answered by lunasage 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-28 05:55:05 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"he can't be that much of a player if he is in high school."
How do you work that one out? I have just left high school and I have slept with over 30 women.. I am English mind you, I dont know if the ages at high school are different over here or not? x
2007-01-31 05:31:12 · answer #9 · answered by popcorn player! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just know lots of players cant play the game straight. So theres a chance he'll mess it up.
2007-01-31 05:23:38 · answer #10 · answered by caring black guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋