i love her she says she loves me(for past 1 year)
2007-01-31 05:12:56 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she has liberal view to sex and we both are 19 y.o.
2007-01-31 05:23:16 · update #1
Good one we have an age... Also put ages on post like this...
Answer is you dont...
Just get more and more touchy and kissy and go from there.
turn a game into strip poker or strip game or winner says do, looser does.
You need to go through 1st base ie kissing, then 2nd base kissing and feeling up...
thern 3rd base with sub levels... ie hands under top, hands down trousers/ skirt over underwear... bothin of you whilst kissing, then hands inside underware.
get good at that, gettin each other off.
(note sperm on fingers even from a stiff willy that has not *** yet as all stiff willies have pre *** on them to moisturise which is just as likely to get pregnant as millions of sperm... cumming is billion... it only takes 1. Still gets girls pregnant)
So before you get to 3rd base get her on a depro injection and both use condoms and both get std teasts as you can get them from blood even if virgins... ie sport, fights, first aids, stepping on sharp things someone with an std got cut on, or splashs in eyes.
Anyway sperm gets in or on and panties are not sperm proof, or near her girlie bits can get her pregnant, even if on perios, even if you pull out.
So atfer the hand and fingerjob stage... etc (practice with condoms and note... when you take it off the willy is coated in sperm so wash it no splashes or gtting it on fingers) used to seeing each other naked ie shower, strip poker, pulling down pants, towelling etc... get to bj and lick job phase...
get good at that... This takes a while...
Somewhere along the way one day you just wont want to stop then you get to sex stage.
2007-01-31 08:21:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok first of all dont ask for sex. Just wait and the moment will come you will know when the time will be. If you like you can set up a romantic date and maybe some sparks will be there and then it will happen. Try it. oh yeah by the way dont have the date in the bedroom or show her that you want sex cause then you will be turned down if you try anything. Another to try is kiss her softly girl love that...and so on.
2007-01-31 05:24:40 · answer #2 · answered by Vencio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont ask her outright, that is a bit clinical...surely you must be at the breathless kissing stage by now....things should just take their course, unless she has strict views on sex before marriage..if thats the case then am afraid you'll have to stick with spanking the monkey till u marry her...wouldve thought after a year together u would 'at it'...mind u, how old are u both? if ur teenagers then i'd say just wait
2007-01-31 05:21:05 · answer #3 · answered by scotgal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grab her nipple when the two of you are kissing and hugging. And if she doesn't mind that, then make a habit of it.
Start grabbing and pleasing her in a kind of foreplay, and she will know that you want to have sex.
It's not good to ask the lady for sex when she is not in the mood. Get the mood going first and then ask for it.
2007-01-31 05:27:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ask for it. Just take her out a romantic night, to dinner and just have a good time, and when the night is close to over take her back to your place and if its ment to happen then it will happen otherwise shes not ready to have sex. Just let it happen if its ment to be. Don't pressure her or force her to make a decision and don't make her feel bad about it if she doesn't want to have sex with you. Trust me if its ment to happen then it will happen just let things play out the way there suppose to.
2007-01-31 05:21:21 · answer #5 · answered by sweet_girl_snglnlokn2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she wants to or if she is ready dont pressure her in to doing it b/c it will never work out after that its not right to pressure someone in to having sex with u b/c ur ready they might not be ready and might not want to have se so ask her if she is ready and wants to have sex but truely u dont know if u r truely ready until it happens i know i thought i was ready but i really wasnt and then when it happened i knew i was ready and i wasnt going to regret it b/c it was with someone really special and i have been with him for a year and 11 months so dont pressure her just ask her and if she says no then wait until she is ready i hope it helps u out
2007-01-31 05:51:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't "ask" her... you sit down and bring it up as a topic to discuss. Ask her if she's ready to take the relationship to the next level... if not, don't worry about it. Sex is something that you both have to agree on and if one's not ready, it has to wait.
2007-01-31 05:21:24 · answer #7 · answered by Alyssa Lynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it normal to ask. I thought it was just a natural progression. Silly me.
2007-02-02 01:30:04 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you been together for a year then maybe you should just tell her you really think its time to you both got romantically involved
2007-01-31 05:24:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you feel ready and that you will wait until she says she is. when that time comes enjoy the show
2007-01-31 05:40:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋