A broken heart? especially when its been broken so many times its changed who you are, changed your life. How do you get over so much emotional pain that its torn you away from the people you love? How do you reverse all the effects, and end the lonliness and emptiness? I'm in a black hole, and its tearing my life apart. I used to self-harm, and I developed an ED and I tried to commit suicide 3 times, but funnily enough, i never went to see a shrink. My parents dont care enought to think anythings wrong. So just like, how do I help myself??
2007-01-31 05:02:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
you find out why you keep seeking out people who break your heart. and then you find help for yourself. you make them see there is a problem. you need help and you deserve help.
2007-01-31 05:06:47 · answer #1 · answered by Carla S 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I really want you to get help and you don't need to live this way but what I have gone through of broken hearts it took me a while to heal and whenever I see that person again it gets to me and so I avoid them and go you need to see the other people that will treat you right it happens to me a lot to so whatever other quetions or if you want to mail me back cause I have the same problem.
2007-01-31 13:09:44 · answer #2 · answered by scottsmith20 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been in a similar spot, Madi. The only thing you can really do is pick up the pieces and go on.
Have you tried talking to your parents? If not them, to a guidance counsellor at school? You're going to need someone who can be right there with you.
Good luck, Sweetheart.
2007-01-31 13:09:31 · answer #3 · answered by Tigger 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i definetly identify alot of us try to please and get people to accept us and love us and care. and we tend to get to close and trust people believe what people say and do and find out in rough bad times and lies whos real and whos not best thing is to move on and make new friends and dont be so trustworthy and guillable and nieve.i ask myself same thing why have i got involved with alot of same people who end up using me lying causing me problems and wrecking my life
2007-02-04 02:01:44 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my advice....stay outta the "love" scene for a while give your self time to see if you like being single.....dont jus assume after two days its not for you give it some time....like a couple months......during this time u should be able to "heal" a bit.... so yeah hope this helped!
2007-01-31 13:08:12 · answer #5 · answered by Get_in_my_belly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a precious person loved by God. He loves you so much that He sacrificed himself, in the body of his Son, Jesus, for you. Not only that you should have internal life with Him but, so that your life on this earth will be blessed.
Don't try to do it alone. God cares and is here for you. Talk to Him about your problems. He is bigger than they are.
My prayer for you: Father, before you is one of your precious children, Madi, who is broken hearted and having many problems. Please give her your comfort as she learns to know your Son, Jesus Christ. Teach her your wisdom and your love. I ask this in Your Son Jesus' precious name. Amen.
2007-01-31 13:24:49 · answer #6 · answered by 4HIM- Christians love 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
get therapy it works go to california or some other place to relax
go on a vacation
2007-01-31 13:10:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
the answer is talking and communicating....lettin it all out of the system
2007-01-31 13:17:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋