I have controlling parents, my dad more than my mom,i live in canada born and raised here. I have modern ideals and stuff but i have parents arn't on the same level as me . My mom's lived in canada most her life and my dad about 20. Dad has a problem with me and my sister wanting to go out and having fun. We go out 1 every two or three weeks at the most. My mom dons't really have a problem but almost always takes my dad's side, i guess in order to keep her marriage peacefull. However becuase of this i'm not allowed to do anything. I'm a college student, work part-time, responsible and everything but i have a 12:00am curfew at the latest. The main problem is i do'nt have many friends after highschool, everyone went there seperate ways but i am extremely close with my cousins. They are all allowed to do as they wish and i'm always either nto allowed go out or have to be home early. This has caused major tention between me and both sides. I'm always dealing with pressure...help me please!
2007-01-31 04:40:38 · 8 answers · asked by K. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
As long as you're living under their roof, you abide by their rules. Otherwise, go get a job, go get a place of your own, and see how tough it is. You should be grateful that your parents have not kicked you out in to the cold and harsh world. You sound like a child, and it's right for your parents to treat you as such until you learn to respect your parents.
2007-01-31 04:52:38 · answer #1 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your 18 years old, Move out. I mean really you have a part time job and can rent a room somewhere else can' t you. See if your cousins will let you stay with them? Just remember anything you can do after 12:00pm is really not worth doing and sleep is essential for good grades and health. Also in my house, the kids over 18 know the my door gets lock when I hit the bed and if they are not in by then, they better have another plan. If they expect to stay out all night, all they have to do is tell me and that is common courtesy. Other then that your parents need to lay off and let you grow up and make some errors in life and if you are out running around after 12:00 at night, you will make errors.
Best of luck.
Tracylyn S
2007-01-31 04:51:44 · answer #2 · answered by Tracylyn S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there any way to get in a dorm or off campus housing to be more or less on your own? Maybe one or two of your cousins would be willing to share rent on an apartment with you. While living under your parents roof it's hard to be independent, since it's their home and their rules. My daughters were treated about the same with their Dad, I tried to help all I could so they could socialize with their peers so I know how your Mom feels too. My girls both got jobs, actually started working while in high school and by the time they graduated had enough to get their own place while in college, both got scholarships so room and board was their biggest expense.
2007-01-31 04:56:43 · answer #3 · answered by sassywv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not much you can do while still living at home. Their house, their rules. And, your mom takes your dad's side because parents should always be on the same page when raising their children, otherwise kids will walk all over their parents. But, they set rules for a reason. Mostly to keep you safe.
2007-01-31 04:47:20 · answer #4 · answered by Groovy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you still stay with your parents and so basically they still can tell you what to do because you stay in their house but what i don't agree with is that you are unable to have a life and thats not right i think that as an adult you should sit down with your parents and have a talk with them on how you feel and maybe if you can put a little in on a bill or two with your part time job they can losen up a bit because you are no longer a little girl.
2007-01-31 04:51:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your dad wear to shove the rules if your over 18 and get your own place privatley!
get a job and forget college
i moved out when i was 17 in england now im in greece living a great life & good job.
2007-01-31 04:50:25 · answer #6 · answered by nikalikala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-28 05:52:39 · answer #7 · answered by philibert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends what age you actually are?
2007-01-31 04:50:02 · answer #8 · answered by Ms Mat Urity 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋