2007-01-31 04:35:10 · 14 answers · asked by psyc13_mind 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well she cheated on me with her friend. She told me they only kissed. I told her I don't want you seeing him again, she said she won't. She saw him 3 more times before she finally ended their relationship. I broke up with her and now she is begging me to forgive her and be with her again! She leaves me constant voice msgs. crying about how much she is sorry and how much she misses me! I know she feels bad b/c she doesn't get any sleep, she's not eating well and she's always down since this happen. I love her with my heart but , i don't know if I can trust her again.
She says she would never do it again and will do anything to be with me even be bed buddies just to see me! Things to know : We've been dating for 1 yr and I'm 21 and she's 18.
2007-01-31 04:46:33 · update #1
yes she will trust me...shes calling you and wanting you back now because her 'friend' prolly has dumped her and shes going for backup...
2007-02-07 13:21:41 · answer #1 · answered by ~Cindy~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say this but most likely she will. If she did it the first time what makes you think that she wouldn't do it again. I'm really sorry about this and I'm not trying to offend anyone by saying this, but I am a girl and I know how we work. Start looking for someone new. I know it can be hard because of your long relationship but do you really want to go on in life living a lie and not knowing whether or not if she is with another guy when she's not with you.
2007-02-08 04:39:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like deep down you BOTH want to try again. That's VERY important.
If I were in YOUR shoes, I think I would try again. Just be SURE and keep your eyes open.
Let her know that you will be out the door at the FIRST sign of impropriety.
Once that trust is gone, she will have to EARN it back. It will take some time. She MUST be willing to give you the time you need, and not judge you by the feelings of betrayal you have. After all, SHE is the cause of your relationship being in the state it is in.
GOOD LUCK!!
2007-02-08 04:41:47 · answer #3 · answered by Renee D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really more important to remember that she already did cheat on you. Whether or not she ever does again (assuming you gave her the chance) is irrelevant. You will ALWAYS be wary of her actions and wonder if she's doing it again, and that can be more torturous than being cheated on. I would suggest you move on. It may sound vindictive, but this could be a good lesson for her to learn now - That there are consequences for her actions in this case losing a good man.
2007-02-08 04:27:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes she will cheat on you....again. You should always remember, "Once a cheater always a cheater!" This should be one of your golden rules. There is so may other mates out there waiting for you.
2007-02-08 04:14:41 · answer #5 · answered by Cherri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 09:03:14 · answer #6 · answered by carris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST, LIKE THEY SAID, ONCE A CHEATER, WILL ALWAYS BE A CHEATER. SECOND, YOU'RE YOUNG...MOVE ON! TRY TO FIND SOMEONE A LITTLE OLDER THAN YOU, JUST TO GET SOME MATURITY TO FIND A GOOD GIRL (WOMAN). YOU WAN TO MOVE AHEAD...NOT BACKWARDS.
2007-02-08 02:23:18 · answer #7 · answered by JEFFREY W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this girl made a mistake and she knows this give her a second chance it sounds like love to me!!!!!
2007-02-08 04:30:59 · answer #8 · answered by dirt77 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
everybody deserves a second chance.
and i don't think in this matter, a girl should get a third chance.
do you know what i'm talking about?
2007-02-08 04:27:07 · answer #9 · answered by phaditama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a cheater
always a cheater
hate them all
2007-02-07 17:55:27 · answer #10 · answered by joy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋