thank u for choosing to read this question. well okay on feb. 28,2007 i will be 17 and im am very unhappy where i am staying. i am staying with my dad and my stepmomi dont have a real mom. but my aunte has always been their for me like a mom is suppose to be. she said i can live with her and after my dad kicked my out last saturday. all we need is my dad to sign the pappers like he said he would. my dad is in the military and is always gon. me and my step mom dont talk i just dont like her i knew her since i was 7 she's just really fake. talks fake, acts fake. i hate her. im tired of my dads temper alyways breaking my stuff yelling and wrost of all buting his hands on me. he dont love my step mom he saaid he will divorce her when we all get out cuz if he divorce her right now she will have alot of his money and all. im just tired of living like this UNHAPPY !!! when my dad kicked me out i stayed with friends and my step-mom called the police on me. said i was a runaway no he kicked me
2007-01-31 04:34:43 · 4 answers · asked by it's HG !! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
he kicked my out. i am 27 days away from being 17. if my dad dont sign the pappers what can i do so that i can live with my aunte ?
my dad is a liar when he didnt know where i was he told all my friends tyhat if i come home he would give me a plane ticket to wherever the haee i wanna go.
ive been here since monday night he has'nt said anything. he acts like everything is back to normal. which it is not.
today i will remind him of what he was telling everybody. i want to live with my aunte sorry that this is long
2007-01-31 04:38:28 · update #1
Hi!
If your aunt is so nice, she loves you and can take care of you pray to be with her. I think it is very difficult to be seventeen and have such problems; take good care of yourself we're living in a crazy world(but you already know that! Please don't forget that God is always here for you, talk with Him, ask HIS help and everything will change! I would like to be able to do more...may God help you understand HIS PURE LOVE!
If you want to read something about prayer read this, please!
http://www.svots.edu/Faculty/Albert-Rossi/Articles/Saying-the-Jesus-Prayer.html
2007-01-31 04:54:16 · answer #1 · answered by tatal_nostru2006 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have your aunt speak with him and see if they can have some sort of agreement, as a child you do have rights, i don't know both sides of the story, meaning how is your attitude and what caused you to get put out, what are your grades, do you mind his rules? if he is putting his hands on you call the police, child abuse hot line, you can press charges especially him being in the service will not be good on his record.
what advice does your aunt give you?
you are still a kid and believe me hang in as long as you can continue to do good in school and be strong, life is hard, friends will not always be there, it cost to live and i am sure most of your friends live with their parents and you will be an extra mouth to feed and clothe and soon you will be on your own or the streets I would hate for that to happen to you.
where is your mom?
You seem to be intelligent so use your head and think first and get advice and know when it is good advice.
report your dad and step mom and get place with your aunt and have your dad pay her child support til your 18
2007-01-31 13:06:22 · answer #2 · answered by ladybug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he kicked you out then yes stay with your aunt. Sit down and talk with just your father and ask him to sign the papers stating that you can stay with your aunt. Don't involve your step-mom. If he refuses to sit and talk to you about everything, continue to stay at your aunts. Let your step-mom call the police, just say that your dad kicked you out of the house and you had no where to stay.
2007-01-31 12:54:29 · answer #3 · answered by Jaime A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can have your auntie file for conservator with a court it is very inexpensive. You can also go to court and emancipated yourself from your date to be independent. There are several things you can legally do, but the best thing is you have said your dad hurts you. I feel that you should turn him in and get removed from his care, then the court will place you with your auntie. Your dad will be prosecuted for hurting you and he should be. I hope you and your auntie will be happy. Get emancipated.
Tracylyn S
2007-01-31 12:57:15 · answer #4 · answered by Tracylyn S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋