Like dancing to another woman many times more than he dances with you. Not paying attention to you. Do you have to show your jealousy or act ok?
2007-01-31 04:15:56 · 19 answers · asked by motherhealth 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do the same - & even more! go to a group of hot bod men & start doing some dirty dancing with them.
2007-01-31 04:26:16 · answer #1 · answered by mama leila 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about the age gap. 15 years is nothing nowadays. I'm 39. And I wouldn't rule out a 25-year-old! He sounds like he still has some personal issues that he's dealing with. How long ago was his divorce? Did he tell you anything about it? Was it messy? Did his ex cheat on him? It really sounds like he has anxiety about risking to care about someone again, and that comes out as jealousy and keeping you at a distance. That is, he doesn't want to risk getting hurt again. The jealousy might also be explained by abandonment issues. He just might need a lot more time to heal and get over the divorce before he can risk getting hurt again. It's a rollercoaster of emotion for him, which is why it seems fine one day/week/month but not the next. How long his recovery will be, who knows?
2016-03-15 02:52:34 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way and should be the only way, is to not involve yourself in the emotions of jealousy. This will only create a domino affect. Walk away from the situation. Unlsess you are
a standup dummy for intolerence. You might want to rethink the relationship alltogether! Is he interested in you? or some other sport? If you choose to stay in the relationship you should keep with the ( whats comes around -goes around) You have eys too?
and polish up on your flirting skills too.
2007-01-31 04:30:03 · answer #3 · answered by riadelmar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm I have been in your shoes before, and nope I did not like it one bit. Not only did the Green Eyed Monster shows its ugly head, but I felt Disrespected. If hes with me, then he needs to act like it. Alot of times men do not even realize wth they are doing. I had a good talk with my Fiancee about this. Looking is one thing, its normal for Both Individuals. Touching is a Big NO_NO. As for his Flirting, hes calmed down a whole lot on that, but it took a Good Talking to.. Good Luck
2007-01-31 04:26:58 · answer #4 · answered by donna_honeycutt47 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think I'd be willing to go out with him again. Why bother? I'd want to date a man who was totally into me, not busy getting the attention of other women. I'm not willing to spend my time on someone who doesn't mind upsetting me or being disrespectful. I have much higher standards than that. No big deal. Move on.
2007-01-31 04:23:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're dating a guy who dances with other women? You sure he's on the same page as you are? Meaning does he know he's in a relationship? Either he's completely insensitive to you or he's an *** trying to make you jealous. Either way, ditch the ***.
2007-01-31 04:23:22 · answer #6 · answered by Groovy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's next to me when it happens, I'll try to hold his hand, or lean on him, (squeezing his hand gently if I need to remind him).
Or, I usually just sit there scowling if he's not near me. He'll usually come over and be all "What's wrong..??" Like he doesnt know...
Also, if he's talking to her, and I dont know her, I'll introduce myself as his girlfriend.
I always talk to him about it later though. Because I want him to know what bothers me.
2007-01-31 04:23:33 · answer #7 · answered by Mellissa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he does this all the time he might want to coz a scene so that he might have a chance to break up with you just ask him after wards or dance with other guys yourself and see his reaction he might be trying to see if you are jealou. two can always play that game. make him jealous but dont give him a reason to leave you he mihgt be looking for one. try this if you really love him though dont trouble uaself if you dont.
2007-01-31 04:28:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck no don't be jealous just do what the gander does, cuz what's good for the gander should be what's good for the goose. So do the goosie goose but don't get too loosie goosie. See how he reacts or what he says.
2007-01-31 04:24:27 · answer #9 · answered by papabeartex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just dancing. Why don't you dance with other guys and see how he reacts. Maybe he'll calm down when the shoe is on the other foot.
2007-01-31 04:22:38 · answer #10 · answered by Michelle M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it was my husband doing it you better believe he'd be pickin somethin out of the back of his head.
It's not the womans fault It's HIM doin it...You have to let him know you DON'T / WON'T tolerate that.
2007-01-31 04:23:10 · answer #11 · answered by earthangel_candy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋